More Than a Pretty Face

No matter where I go, I feel people’s eyes on me.

Some might say I’m paranoid,and others might say I’m conceited. In reality, I know there might be many possible reasons that people are looking at me, all of which don’t equate to me being complete and total hot shit. I’m humble enough of a person to not think the absolute world of myself. Yet, for years now, wherever I go, I feel people watching.

I am not the type of girl who necessarily looks for attention every time I leave the house. Sure, if my friends and I are out and dressed in our cute little mini-skirts and high heel stilettos, looking for flattery, flirtatiousness, and fun, I might set out to turn heads. However, in my day-to-day life of going to Starbucks, going to class, going for a run in the park, going to a yoga class, going out to dinner or lunch with a friend, and going back to my dorm, I’m definitely not thirsty for an all-eyes-on-Ryder party.

Yet, it happens. Every. Single. Day.

A couple of years ago I read a blog written by a hot girl who “complained” about the stresses of going through life being beautiful. Social media tore this girl apart. When you’re a woman and you know you’re attractive you can rest assured you’ll be met with a predetermined set of reactions from people any time your attractiveness might be mentioned. The usual emotions from other women are that of envy and jealousy. When you’re a woman who is attractive and let’s the world KNOW she knows that she is attractive… watch out…. the full wrath is coming, particularly by other women who would rather tear an attractive woman down than show any sign of empathy or understanding for having something valuable to say about how her looks might directly impact the way she is able to walk through life.

Reading the “poor me, I’m beautiful” blog by that girl resonated with me, though. My entire life I’ve been complimented on my looks. From friends, to family, to acquaintances, to strangers, the topic of my beauty was ingrained in my mind from a very young age. From my straight teeth, my piercing eyes, my symmetrical face, and my petite frame, my good looks and all the compliments I receive about them have certainly given me a healthy dose of confidence at my young age. Having an older brother and two bratty sisters helped keep me grounded. Also, my parents, both good looking in their own right, kept us all humble through the very careful ways they taught us that looks are on the surface, but what you have in your mind, heart, and soul make up the complete person that you become.

My looks benefit me in many ways, but I’d be lying if I didn’t feel they also held me back at times. Sure, being beautiful gets me tons of calls on NiteFlirt which is fantastic for me. However, it also gets me unwanted attention by strangers who try to dissect me and make assumptions that while I have beauty to offer the world, I must in no way have anything else valuable to give.

The fact is, I love being pretty. However, more so I love that I am smart, funny, and a positive and energetic person to be around. My smile and eyes may visually radiate when I enter a room, but it’s my ability to hold a conversation about anything you can imagine. I have callers on NiteFlirt with whom I’ve spent hours discussing politics, literature, movies, relationships, philosophical issues, and so much more. While I am young, I have a mind that soaks in whatever I learn and when it comes to things I do not know, I have a youthful energy of inquisitiveness that wants to learn more and more every day.

There’s that old adage that you should “never judge a book by its cover.” I am a prime example of proving people’s assumptions wrong. I’ve been on many first dates where the guy expects me to sit there and look pretty and put out at the end of the night, but is surprised when I have interesting and witty things to say. It’s true that one’s physical appearance makes a first impression, but to me, I value my intelligence, personality, and charisma above my pretty face.

So, next time you see a hot girl on the street or all of the gorgeous images of drop dead beautiful flirts on NiteFlirt, don’t just assume that we only have our physicality and sexuality to offer to you. Phone sex and any intimate interactions in life can mean so much more than just a superficial physical level and while I am incredibly happy you love my face and get turned on by my body, I know that you will be missing the best parts of me if that’s all you choose to focus on during our time together.

Are you willing to delve deeper than your physical and sexual connection with your favorite phone sex girls? Go ahead and try me! Nothing is sexier than a man who tells me he fell in love with my mind over that of my hot, young bod. If you’ve been missing out in emotional and deep connections in your daily relationships or your phone sex relationships, it’s time to pick up the phone and call a girl who can offer you so much more than dirty talk and sexy pictures.

I will climb into your head and stimulate you in ways that will keep you craving for more. We’ll grow to have a mutual caring relationship for one another, where sex talk is just the cherry on top of a beautiful relationship that comes from taking the time to appreciate all parts of me rather than just what’s on the surface.

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Phone Sex Masquerade

A Great Season for Role Play Phone Sex

There are many reasons that autumn is my favorite season. For one, the heat and humidity of summer seems to dissipate and the cool nights and beautiful, breezy days are a welcome change. Even though it’s the start of the school season, it’s also the start of sexy boots and leggings weather and pumpkin spice everything. It’s the season of my birthday (no big deal). Plus, it is the perfect time to act out all our naughty little fantasies that have festered all year long with some fucking incredible role play phone sex!

Growing up in and living in New England I’m spoiled by the four seasons and all the typical fall traditions leading up to Halloween. I might be a college girl, but every year I still carve pumpkins, take joy in reading scary stories, and have even been known to partake in the debauchery of Mischief Night. Most of all, I, like every other college girl at this time, find myself in the ultimate and absolute late-October panic of trying to figure out what the hell to dress up as for Halloween!
Do I go with dressing as a sexy two sexy beautiful brunette semi nude police women with long curly hair with handcuffs in fashion glasses with birght makeup and red lips isolated on whitesuperhero? Sexy animal? Sexy athlete? Sexy fairytale character? Sexy villain or something else? The one common theme here, is that it’s got to be sexy, slutty, revealing, and grab the attention of everyone at whatever parties I’ll be attending. When it comes to Halloween, it’s the one night a year EVERY girl is expected to play her sluttiest role! There’s no market for most realistic witch, most well executed flapper, or most historically accurate Marie Antoinette. Nope. It’s all about short skirts, tight latex, and super-duper high heel shoes. Part of the appeal to dress up on Halloween goes beyond just the desire for attention. So much of the fun is due to playing the part and keeping in character so that for just a brief moment you feel like someone other than yourself.

Aside from trying to figure out what to dress up as for Halloween, I love the lore and mystery surrounding the holiday. I love that we celebrate a night each year where people are encouraged to step into the role of someone or something else. This reminds me of what I offer to guys on NiteFlirt. In role play phone sex, the ability to mask yourself as whomever and whatever you choose is the name of the game. I step into the service provider role of offering whatever it is a guy is looking for. This creates fantasy role play phone sex experiences where we can both play around with a broad range of fantasies from the comfort of our own homes and the anonymity of never being judged for it. It’s fun to put on masks of different characters. In truth, it’s more often than not that a man is removing his everyday mask to show his true self in our call. Whichever way you look at it, role play phone sex is much like Halloween. It’s all about fantasy, play time, excitement, and make-believe.

 

Unveiling Your Mask with Role Play Phone Sex

Whenever a man calls my NiteFlirt line, I am completely honest when asked about my basic demographics. For instance, where I live, where I go to school, my age, my background, and my sexual and personal interests are all fair game when an inquisitive mind wants to know. This type of information exchange is helpful for callers who want to truly get to know me before getting to the steamy stuff. Men looking for girlfriend experiences rely on honesty so they can see if I’m the woman they want to invest their time and money into for regular relationship calls. Men who want to find one or two particular girls he can be a loyal caller to will want to be choosy and make sure he clicks and has true chemistry with his flirt of choice.

However, many men who call phone sex sites like NiteFlirt are not necessarily looking for this “getting to know you” back and forth. Even if they are looking to get to know who I really am, when it comes time to talk sex, they prefer to play around with different roles and situations. In essence, we are not having phone sex as “ourselves;” we are playing roles in order to cater to and create your ultimate fantasy. A man might click my listing but despite who I actually am, he approaches the call with a specific role, character, or concept already in mind.

It’s my job as a phone sex provider to try to adapt to whatever role a guy is asking me to play. In my personal life, I prefer to be more sexually submissive. Yet, if a guy wants to be cuckolded, be locked in a cock cage, and denied masturbation just because I tell him “no” then I become the sadistic mistress who I would never be in real life. It’s such an exciting, interesting, and eye-opening role to be in. I get to witness a man peel back the facade of his everyday face and reveal a version of himself hidden from plain view.

I believe that phone sex, more so than any other adult entertainment form, allows each of us to completely change our perception of ourselves and our sexual experiences thanks to the power of fantasy role play. Fantasy role play phone sex opens the door to celebrate endless amounts of sexy scenarios that each of our minds can conjure.

In role play phone sex calls, I’ve played the sexy and heroic super girl. I’ve stepped into the glass slippers of a Disney Princess. More often than not, I’m the perfect homewrecking babysitter or bratty cheerleader who rules the coaches cock. I’m occasionally the desperate young woman who gets lost on her way home at night and needs to find the help of a mysterious stranger. On any given night I can be an obedient little slut. I can also be a humiliatrix who will make you fear me. The beauty of fantasy role play phone sex is that it has no bounds. Our call can defy time, place, reality, and push the imagination to new levels of eroticism that cannot be experienced in real life. The mind can summon dark, disturbing, unique, unpredictable and even hilarious situations that both you and I never thought possible.

Whenever a man completes a role play phone sex call with me, my hope would be that when he reflects on it, he can’t wait to come back and play some more. The small details that I try to provide to create a sense of reality in a fantasy world should and do make men become role play phone sex addicts. Your mind should be constantly racing with new and exciting roles we can play, much like how someone would run through all the potential characters he or she can be when dressing up for a Halloween party.

The Essentials of Role Play Phone Sex

A couple things are required for great role play phone sex calls. The first is to have an open mind and willingness to follow the call wherever it takes us. oct-blog-role-play-phone-sex-4Being a creative person is extremely helpful, though as long as the phone sex provider you call can offer creativity, you can rely on her to take you where you want to be. Another helpful attribute for great role play phone sex experiences is to be able to put aside any self-judgment and allow yourself to let go, regardless of how outrageous an idea may seem in the onset.

In your fantasy role play phone sex calls with me, come prepared with a basic scenario or role that turns you on. Then lay back, let your mind erase all sense of your real world. Allow me to paint the scene for you, as we both open up a world of make believe. Role play phone sex is the most appealing way to put on the visage of someone other than yourself.  Don’t wait for a masked Halloween night that comes once a year. Instead, call me on NiteFlirt for amazing role play phone sex calls that can transport you into the role of someone new each and every night of the year.

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Click here to checkout my fantasy role play audio goodies to give you a taste and tease of what you’d be in for during a role play phone sex call!

 

Anal Sex Adventures

Anal sex is in, and to be blunt – most guys want to fuck a girl in her ass at some point in his life!

It’s the hard (pun intended) truth. It can become a pressure between partners when one person definitively wants to try anal sex and one doesn’t even have anal sex on their sexy-time radar. The truth though, is that anal sex and ass play in general can be some of the most intense and enjoyable sexual experiences when done properly.

When it comes to anal sex, some of us girls are success stories with positive first experiences. Other girls, however, have horror stories or fears that make us never want a guy going back there under any circumstance. Some of us lucky ones were converted, only to become addicted to the pleasure of ass play and anal sex, with the hope of introducing it to new partners of our own.

Is Anal Sex “Vanilla” or “Taboo”?

Depending on who you ask, anal sex and ass play can get shockingly different reactions. Of my group of best friends, only two of us girls admit to enjoying anal sex and three have tried it but say it’s not for them. The remaining three of the eight of us have an absolute hell-to-the-no response any time the topic comes up.

I became sexually active at a young age. It was myAnal Sex freshman year in high school when my then boyfriend first mentioned the prospect of anal sex to me. To generations older than my own, the idea of sex at that age, not to mention anal sex, might already be surprising. Yet, those people must remember, my generation is hyper-sexualized. I mean, all teens are obsessed with sex and have raging hormones, regardless of what decade their adolescence took place in. However, my generation is one groomed off of Internet porn and other forms of entertainment that pushes sexual limits. Things that might have been taboo to our parents’ generation has become matter-of-fact or even “vanilla” to us.

Regardless of age or gender, though, sexual fetishes are subjective. What’s the norm and expected sexual play to one person might be deviant and offensive to another. It’s anal sex, though, that is one of those fetishes that falls within the mainstream that is still met with shock and whispers when discussed in social circles.

Anal SexI’ve known girls who claimed to give blow jobs before they ever had their first kiss. I’ve known other girls who had anal sex because they didn’t consider that as giving up their virginity (eye roll). Other girls of course were harassed into it by boyfriends, while some had a very clear “no enter” policy on ass play of any kind. Sex acts like oral sex, vaginal sex, and YES, even anal sex are the norms for most average teens in a world where SnapChat and secret texting apps that our parents don’t know about are the main form of communication among friends and classmates.

Once, during my sophomore year of high school, a boy from one of my classes who might never have had the nerve to speak to me in school had all the courage in the world talking over direct message. Alone in his room one night, he got horny; having seen some pictures I added to Instagram, his self control was tested and he became so confident that he felt the need to text me. He wrote something to the effect of, “I want you to wrap those sexy lips around my cock so bad.” As a young woman, I feel flattered by this compliment, while at the same time questioning the nerve to be so bold to a girl he’d never had a real conversation with in person.

As you can imagine, if propositions like this come from mere acquaintances, when it comes to someone you’re already sexually active with, the limits are tested and pushed constantly. From requests of naughty SnapChats to acting out fantasies your boyfriend or friend saw in a porn the night before, this tends to be how many girls my age come around to trying anal sex for the first time. Just like “regular” sex, once anal sex is practiced within your circle of friends, it becomes more normalized, less taboo, and just another way to switch things up in the bedroom (or in the car or wherever the hell you can get it in before you have to be home for dinner). 

Ease Into Anal Sex with Ass Play

Anal SexFrom early on in my sexual experiences I enjoyed having a guy lick me all over, which includes finding his tongue exploring around my tight little asshole. Feeling a finger press against that spot as I got my pussy licked, would make me quiver all over. Eventually, having that very first finger start to press against that tightness, I was introduced to a world that made my orgasms more intense and my sexual appetite even more exaggerated than it already was. I have amazing memories back to my early sexual experiences when my boyfriend would go down on me literally every single day after school. He’d always in some way explore my perfect little tight asshole, telling me he dreams about the day that I finally let him fuck me there.

Due to his desire to take things to the next level, my boyfriend showed me an anal sex video of a girl hardcore fucked in the ass. In his own misguided youth, he chose a video that was particularly rough and hard and turned me OFF rather than ON to the whole idea of it. I still wanted ass play with his tongue and finger, but gave a strong “no” on anything more. One day he even “accidentally” slipped back there as he was fucking me, and the excruciating pain made me scream and cry and tell him that the whole idea of him, me, and anal sex just isn’t going to happen.

Fast forward a couple of years, after my aforementioned anal-dreaming boyfriend and I broke up. I got into a relationship with a man who was much older than me and very married (oops). He loved my youth, energy, and sexual appetite. I loved his experience, gentleness, and sexually explorative nature. He told me there wasn’t anything he wouldn’t want to do with me, and this naturally opened the topic of anal sex.Anal Sex

He told me he’d done it before, but never with his wife. She never wanted to try it and once she said she didn’t have that interest, anal sex and ass play of any kind was shut down completely. Hearing him talk about his experience of fucking girls in the ass in his past and loving it, but being cut off from ever having the chance to experience that again made me think about my own sexual choices.

I never wanted nor do I ever want to be that woman who says “never.” I knew I didn’t want to go that far with my ex-boyfriend and do anal a couple years prior, but now… I was intrigued. I had this experienced, sexy, mature older man who knew what he was doing. Furthermore, the extent to which he would get hard when we would talk about it would turn me on so fucking much.

So one brave night, I took solace in the distance of not being with him at the time and texted him a selfie of me with my ass up in the air behind me. The accompanying message read, “I want you to fuck me so bad, and I want you to put it in my ass next time.” So the following Friday after school, when my parents thought I was going to my best friend’s house and staying the night, I showed up at the hotel to meet up with him. I was nervous and excited. He came equipped with lube and was already hard, but fully expecting me to tell him to stop as soon as he got started. He took his time with me. He ate me out, warmed my little ass up by licking it and fingering it, and telling me how fucking hot I am and he can’t wait to feel that tight butt wrapped around his cock.

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I’ll never forget the feeling of the head of his cock pressing against my ass for the first time. His cock was so wet, and it took a really long time for him to even be able to fit the head inside of me, which was the most painful part. He was patient, gentle, and sweet. He constantly asked me if I was okay and wanted more. I could only keep expressing a breathy “yes” as he tried to fit it in. Eventually, he got the head in, and started to slowly push in further, never being rough or getting too carried away.

Anal SexIf I could ever give a man advice about turning a girl on to anal sex, it would be to use this patient and gentle approach. The “oops, I slipped” and rough anal sex porn approach of my previous boyfriend got him nowhere with my ass at that time. However, this sensual, slow, and conscientious technique not only turned me on to anal sex, but eventually got me begging for him to fuck me in my ass nearly every time we would hook up after that.

Like most things, this affair came to an end. He’s still with his wife, but it makes me smile every time I think about being able to make his teen anal sex fantasies come true. It makes me smile even more, though, that he turned me on to something that I otherwise would have potentially cut myself off from trying simply because it was, with my ex-boyfriend, the wrong person at the wrong time.

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Guy’s who call me on NiteFlirt for phone sex fun know that I’m an “anything goes” phone-fuck teen who loves it in my mouth, my pussy, and my ass. I like it slow and sensual and I like it hard and wild. Anal sex is always on the menu for my insanely sexy NiteFlirt boyfriends, but when it comes to real life I’ve only given my ass up to one other guy after my first anal sex partner.

The one other person was that ex-boyfriend who turned me off to it in the first place. For a very brief 3-month period, we got back together our last year of high school, and I never told him at the time that I had anal with someone else before him. I did, however, walk him through the slower, more sensual approach and it was amazing. It confirmed, if nothing else, that it wasn’t just a fluke; I’m a fan of anal sex! Things not long after got contentious between my boyfriend and I again. One day, in a cruel moment of too much honesty, I admitted to him that he was NOT the first guy to fuck me in my ass. Part of me took pleasure in this due to some of the ways he had previously treated me. However, there was that little part of me that felt guilty since he and I had so many other “firsts” together throughout our relationship.

I’m still waiting though, for that next guy in REAL LIFE who is going to get my ass. I love anal play and anal sex and can’t wait to meet another partner who goes above and beyond to worship my hot ass, do everything in his power to make it feel good, and who will cum harder than ever when he knows he’s in an elite club of guys I’d ever let slide into my ass and spread me open in such an intimate and exhilarating way. Until then though, where are my anal sex phone sex partners? I am craving a good anal fuck right now!
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Make America Sexy Again

AppleSexyAs a young woman of the millennial, digital age generation I know that by nature I tend to have a different outlook on a lot of life situations than probably many of the men I speak to on a regular basis. I’m of the generation who was practically born with an iPhone in our hands and if it wasn’t for the fact that my brother is a bona fide hipster, I wouldn’t have any fucking clue what people meant when they say things like “I have that album on vinyl” or “I’ll make you a mixed tape.” From politics, to pop culture, to social media, technology, fashion, and more, chances are strong that you and I would have some distinction between our perspectives simply on our age-gap alone, if not other factors. However, there is one unifying topic and universal language that joins us together: sex.

When I first became a Phone Sex Operator/Provider/Seductress/Mistress or other sexy title of your choosing, I’d have been hard pressed to consider myself part of the “adult industry.” I mean, I’m a normal girl, living in my parents’ house anGoodTimeSexyd just trying to save up some money for when I get to college, this is a temporary thing and short-lived, not something to make a career out of or to feel like I’ve joined the ranks of “real” adult performers like strippers, escorts, or porn stars. I never had those feelings in a judgmental way, but certainly in a separation kind of way. A “what I do” compared to “what they do” kind of way, which subconsciously, I’m now aware is judgmental when faced with that distinction as it’s typed out in front of me. From the point of view that “I just do phone sex,” I couldn’t possibly consider myself in the same ranks as women literally spending their nights in the laps of men at strip clubs, pay-by-the-hour motel rooms, or at The Bunny Ranch.

Having now been in the business of getting men off for money for a little over a year now, my perspectives have most certainly changed. As I look around me in the real world (i.e. the world outside of the dark, isolated, secret corners of the world with whom I’m connected through the phone late at night), I come to find to a frightening extent just how judgmental, conservative, and uptight our country, if not world, is about sex, sexuality, and sex workers. This comes to mind for a few reasons. One of which is a bill that’s up for vote in California affecting the adult film industry (Hey Cali guys – vote NO on Prop60 – read more here) another being the conservative push for restrictions on pornography, labeling it as some kind of disease that’s infesting our American society, and the third reason being my own personal encounters with a very judgmental person who showed me first hand that maturity and understanding do not, in fact, come with age and experience, as you’re often taught.

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Many of my guys who read my blog probably remember a time when you watched porn on VHS tapes or back rooms of video stores. You might remember when pornography started to become THE reason to get an Internet connection or when at a certain time of night late night cable would show soft-core porn (side note: they still do; this wasn’t just something happening in your glory days. hehe). For you, sex and masturbation was taboo and not often talked about openly- even the vanilla kind, so I can understand the frustration, humiliation, and shame that comes along with far more taboo fetishes you’d never let your colleagues, friends, family or even your best friend or significant other know about.

For me and my generation, however, we were raised in a digital age where any piece of information (sexual or otherwise) was a keyboard click away. I remember having dusty, old, rarely used dictionaries and encyclopedias in my classrooms that went unused. Those items became obsolete to desktops, tablets, and our own personal phones to seek out information. I grew up with a Mac in my bedroom, and as society would see it, I was an adolescent always one possible second away from the ultra scary world of corruption, abduction, and perversity.

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But to me, this access to information was just that… information. An education in something no one was willingly to openly talk about where the questions I had about my body, my fantasies, my internal thoughts and feelings weren’t hushed or turned away.  I was able to turn to the resources that let me realize that I wasn’t alone in these early adolescent desires. What was happening to my body and to my mind wasn’t something to be self-conscious or ashamed of, as people would have it. Instead, I found solace in the fact that women could be empowered, in control, and find pleasure in their body and in fulfilling their needs.

Thanks to those dirty, dark corners of the Internet and Internet porn, I grew to feel more open about my control over my body. It introduced conversations between my friends and I about sex that we otherwise might have never discussed, answering our cuSexyGirlsriosities and helping us explore what it meant to learn about our own bodies through feeling sensations of excitement, touching ourselves, and understanding the way that one day we will need men to touch us in order to bring us pleasure. For my friends and I we are looked at by older adults as being horny, slutty, degenerates who aren’t going to make anything of ourselves as a result of our over sexed and undisciplined lifestyles. It’s easy to blame the Internet, porn, movies, pop culture, etc. However, the way I see it is that we are no different from any other generation; we simply have the benefit of not having to hide who we are, what we like, and how we choose to act on those desires. I don’t believe we’re having sex any earlier than ever before; I just believe that more people are paying attention because of the exposure and unapologetic attitude of myself and my peers.

I’m not naive. I know there is a dark world out there and I completely know that my own perspective of pornography comes from the comforts of my suburban, middle-upper class bedroom as I took breaks from studying for my next AP exam or as I excitedly sought new, exciting ways to pleasure my boyfriend the next time we hooked up. I understand that there are predators, traffickers, and monsters out there. I, however, don’t believe it’s the adult industry, but rather the shame and degradation that comes along with the judgment toward sex, that perpetuates those issues (among other things that I won’t get into). Adult services, be it pornography, strip clubs, cam shows, or phone sex, are for entertainment. The purpose is to excite, release, move on, repeat. Anyone taking it as any more or less than that, as some kind of deep seeded stain on our society, needs to look into themselves about what they are truly trying to hide, because I find it is almost always the people who preach the loudest against something who tend to be the most guilty at the end of it all.

AmericanPantiesSexyAmerica is an amazing country that a majority of us lucky enough to be living here most certainly are aware of. We have the ability to freely speak our minds, debate issues, protest opposition, and so much more. However, in some ways our country wants to revert back to a puritanism of sorts, where sex is for procreation and not pleasure, where people aren’t supposed to live open, authentic lifestyles if it makes some other person or group uncomfortable, and where some government officials and groups want to place restrictions on the type of content, ideas, and images we are exposed to. We are living in a time when a small group of people in the government are telling women their jobs are putting them in danger and harmful to their health, safety, and to the impressions made on society; these same people though, are not willing to listen to the women working directly in the sex industry, who are saying “No- YOU do not know my life, my job, or the effect any of it has on me OR the world.” A majority of the women in the sex industry are empowered through their work; they do not need a law to tell them to “wear condoms or else,” when it’s riddled with language that could begin the downward spiral of the pornography industry in the state responsible for its primary production.

Many people might look at me and think “I can’t believe Ryder is doing THAT.” Yet, in that one simple judgment they fail to see that I’m not “just” a sex worker. I am smart, funny, clever, sarcastic, stubborn. I’m a daughter, sister, friend, lover. I’m a student and I’m a Phone Sex Operator. Most of all, I am someone who knows that people are at their happiest when they are getting laid and when they are getting off. I believe the adult industry is at its best with women at the helm of their own careers making their own business choices that are best for themselves. We are at our best when we are able to create content that allows men and women to have moments that allow us to feel true to ourselves and our desires.

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I already think America’s pretty great; but, I do think it could be a whole lot sexier as soon as we take the shame out of pleasure, take the stigma out of adult content, and just get it in like we need to- whether in real life, on the phone, digitally, or just in our imaginations. My hope is that older generations than mine look upon people my age with some envy that we can be so open and true to ourselves without as much judgment. In turn though, my other hope would be that those who are passing judgment on sexual promiscuity, the availability of pornography, and servicesAmericanFlagSexy that cater to adult clients will look within their own thoughts to identify hypocrisy where it exists. At the end of this all, let’s just all work harder to make America sexier! Celebrate your sexuality and your fetishes!. Explore curiosities and don’t be ashamed to make requests to sexual partners and have open discussions with  friends whom you fear might pass judgment. In the end, you have one life… Are you going to live it making excuses based on what others might think, or are you going to be your own freaky self and support the industry that brings to life every facet of your fantasies in vivid, exotic, and fucking incredible ways?

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Ryder’s Red Hot, Sexy Summer

Have you been having a sexy summer? I have!

I’m well aware that I’ve been onsexy summer a serious hiatus with my blog writing this summer. Blame my sexy summer days by the beach and pool with friends, blame my incredible vacation to Italy that put me in a “disconnected from the world” state of mind, or blame yourselves – my many phone sex partners who keep me up so late at night, exhausting me from anything else in the world to the point where my mind is filled with sleep, fogginess, and just a constant hunger to cum rather than writing about it 😉

 

My Sexy Summer on Twitter

If you are wondering what I’ve been up to all summer now is as good a time as any to follow me on Twitter, where I’ve been very active lately! My handle is @FlirtRyderDoll – and while I know that many of you don’t want to mix RL with PSL (Real Life with Phone Sex Life, that is) there’s no reason you can’t create a “Phone Sex” or “NiteFlirt” related Twitter account to follow me and your other favorite flirts. You’ll benefit from getting to know me on a much more intimate level, feeling like you’re not only in my head since you know what I’m thinking but also to feel like you’re just an everyday part of my life due to ongoing communication any time of day or night. Also, you’ll get immediate updates and when I am signed on and off of NiteFlirt… and if you’re in dire need of me, you can tweet me and it instantly sends a notification to my phone. Much better than relying on NiteFlirt mail that I might not see until hours after you’ve sent it.Tempted yet? Create an account and follow me @FlirtRyderDoll!

 

My Sexy Summer on NiteFlirt

I’ve also updated my Goodies offerings with several new itemsexy summers throughout the course of this sexy summer. I’ve got everything from JOI (Jerk Off Instruction) to Fantasy Role Plays to extreme filthy talk to a 60 minute very intimate and personal Q & A session with yours trulyIf you have not checked these out yet, make sure you do. Use them as an escape from your daily life and use me and my voice as the ultimate form of Viagra that will keep you not only ROCK hard, but cumming non-stop like never before.

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My Sexy Summer in Italy

romeAside from my shameless self-promotions (#sorrynotsorry) my summer has been absolutely amazing. I took a 2-week vacation to Italy, where I travelled to 4 different regions on what was my first ever “solo” vacation. I was with one of my best friends and college roomie, but by “solo” I mean without my parents or without my school. My previous 2 trips to Europe were high school trips, to Barcelona and to London, and several years ago my family went overseas on a two week adventure to Ireland and Northern Ireland. Italy was my first time abroad as an adult, and wow did I make the most of it! I travelled to Rome, Florence, the Cinque Terre, and Venice & Verona and saw the most amazingly incredible sites and experienced the best that food, lifestyle, and culture had to offer.

I’m very fortunate to have such a prosperous job for a 19-year-old girl davidthat I was not only able to make this trip happen, but that I was able to live like a fucking baller for the entire 2 weeks I was there. I mean, since I’ve been home I’ve put myself on financial lock-down in order to save money for when I go back to school, but while there, I saw everything and anything my heart desired, I drank wine with every meal (hello, 18yo drinking age!), I soaked in the mediterranean sun and beaches, I flirted and enjoyed excursions with men who didn’t even speak English, and I spoiled myself rotten. I couldn’t be happier and my friend and I are already brainstorming ideas of where to travel next summer. Anyone have suggestions?

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Looking Forward to a Sexy Fall

As mansexy summery of you can probably agree, summer has soared past … I don’t know what happened to July and can’t believe that 3-weeks from now I’ll be packing my bags again and heading back to Boston for my sophomore year of school. I’ve been asked by a lot of guys lately what they can do for me, so if you’re feeling generous and want to contribute to “Ryder’s Back-to-School” fund, you can always send me a tribute or shop off my Amazon List to surprise me with some goodies for when I head back to a busy, busy year. Maybe instead you want to fund my back-to-school wardrobe? You can always tribute me on NiteFlirt or send specific store gift cards to my email address at RyderDoll1123@gmail.com. Anything and everything you guys do for me, I’m continuously grateful for! 

 

Aside from this update, I’m working on some ideas for another blog post in the coming days or hours, so make sure to check back and as always, don’t forget to give me a call soon so you can have some dirty talk and a naughty fuck with your favorite little flirt!


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Daddy’s Girl

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Yes, I need to address the super taboo, “off-limits,” word that brings with it a predetermined understanding of the dynamics of a relationship. I imagine the word “daddy” has been a part of bedroom play for decades, but for me personally, up until the last year “daddy” to me was only used in reference to my ACTUAL father whenever I really needed to borrow money, have a curfew extension, or lay on a guilt trip of some kind. Like every “daddy’s girl,” I mastered the art of the pouty lips and whiney voice very early in life. As the father of three adorable daughters (and one relatively handsome son) my dad has been put through the ringer when it comes to being wrapped around our pretty little fingers.

DaddysGirl6Nowadays the term “daddy” has brought on a highly sexual connotation for me, thanks to so many amazing callers on NiteFlirt. I often have callers reluctantly slip the “D” word into conversations and calls, worried that I’m going to cry “TOS violation” and disconnect immediately. Other guys go for it right away, introducing themselves as “Daddy” either when I ask for a name or prior to my even answering the phone through their daddy-inspired username. As a young woman who has a very healthy relationship with her real dad, this sexual nickname doesn’t offend me at all. I completely understand why NiteFlirt and other adult websites might want to discourage the use of the term, for fear that it instigates an incestuous relationship between blood relatives or those living under the same roof. Also, being that the term “daddy” clearly insinuates a much older man and a younger girl, I am sure they are fearful of any association to underage-play. I respect that and am not promoting those particular fantasies, despite the fact that they do indeed come up every so often. My perspective on this topic addresses the use of “daddy” outside of these previously mentioned circumstances.

I, like many other girls must confess that, from time-to-time, I’ve gotten caught up in the daddy role-play fantasy of many of my callers. Especially being a young woman who is just naturally attracted to and drawn to older, sophisticated, established men, I can’t help but get a little wet between my legs every time a guy introduces himself into the mysterious “daddy” role. Aside from the aforementioned TABOO concepts, there’s a lot of non-taboo ways to play with the daddy role. One way, obviously, is through the arrangement of a “Sugar Daddy” and “Sugar Baby,” while the other is simply just a mutual understanding that in the bedroom, “Daddy” is in charge; therefore, as the naughty little girl, I must comply with his wishes. This is a far tamer approach to a master and slave dynamic that allows partners to dip their toes into the figurative waters that represent power, domination, and control.

There is something so fucking hot about this role-play to me; I not only look forward to receiving these calls, but the role-play will almost always get ME off as well. There is some criteria that I have, though, since I couldn’t possibly be fingering myself and rubbing my clit every single time a guy wants me to call him “daddy.”  For instance, the circumstance would need to be such that the caller and I have good chemistry. Also, we’dDaddysGirl3 both need to have a mutual understanding of our roles. Furthermore, the guy on the other end of the line must be able to match my ability to get into the role, having a way with his words that convinces me he’s my authority figure who is to be respected. I live for those moments when I have to ask “daddy” for permission, when I need to inquire how to best make him proud, and when I have been naughty and need to be punished. I’ve always naturally, in my real sexual life and fantasies, been drawn to the submissive role, so a role-play that heightens this concept but doesn’t take it quite as far as being a “slave” really excites me. Being “daddy’s girl” means I get to be myself in terms of my real personality, age, and sexual interests. I get to be with an older man who truly loves girls my age, I get to do and say the things that turn me on, and I get to drive a guy crazy with my authentic enthusiasm.

Although I don’t consider myself a true “Sugar Baby,” I also think the concept of a “Sugar Daddy” can be hot in role-plays as well as in real life. As I said earlier, I’m extremely attracted to men who are successful and distinguished. He can be married or single, have a family or be child-less, possibly have the perfect personal life and professional life that most men dream of, or feel that his current situation is lackluster and uninspiring. Whatever the man brings to the table, I always love the entire scenario of me being the tempting, alluring, young woman drawing his attentions elsewhere. A man who is at a point in his life where he has it all, yet, for whatever reason, is longing for something in his life that inspires him to not be compliant in the mundane or predictable, will benefit greatly from a relationship with a girl in her late teens to early twenties.

By providing financial benefits to the DaddysGirl8girl, the man, in turn, will benefit not only sexually but mentally, spiritually, and in so many ways that help him to feed off of the adventure, the spontaneity, and the positive energy that comes along with a young woman on the brink of discovering her place in the world. For the young woman, she finds not only financial stability in a time when she would otherwise be living off of ramen noodles and shopping at B-level stores, she gets a taste of what the future of her life might have to offer if she, too, stays motivated by her career and the potential to begin that professional life debt-free. A confident, successful, and affluent man can provide opportunities, inspiration, sexual satisfaction, and personal growth on a level that wouldn’t be gained even slightly by dating college boys.

When it comes to real-life, over fantasy role-play, what I’m not into, however, is being a “trophy girl.” I don’t want a “daddy,” be it of the “sugar” variety or any man playing that authoritative role, who would be content with me being arm candy and nothing else. If a guy is looking for an individual seeking guidance, a girl who can provide thought-provoking conversations and challenge him at times, and a young woman who has self-respect, poise, and aspirations, then I’d be the perfect “baby girl” for him to reign his sugar down upon. If the man in question is simply in search of a perfect little fuck-toy who will be silent, submissive, stupid, and stunning all at once, I’m only willing to humor him with phone-time role-play when he calls my line.

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Sometimes “daddy” play is purely for the gratification of getting off with a great goddamn orgasm in the heat of the moment. Other times the scenario might be considered in the long-term arrangement between two individuals mutually benefiting from a steamy and prosperous encounter. Regardless of the set-up, the whole concept of being “daddy’s girl” in the bedroom is one that I am beginning to experiment with and very willing to further explore both on NiteFlirt and throughout these years of my young life as a college girl.

What do you guys think? Is “daddy” role-play hot or is it going too far? Do you think a lot of girls share my excitement over this roleplay? Does the idea of having a “Sugar Baby” get your cock hard, or does it make you feel taken advantage of and used?

I’d love to know your thoughts on this, and all my blog topics, either through the comments here, or through messaging me privately or calling me on NiteFlirt!

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Girl on Girl Action

There’s just something about girl-on-girl action that makes men lose their fucking minds. I agree that the image of two sexy girl’s pretty, soft lips locked in a kiss, twirling their cute little tongues around one another is fucking beautiful. When it comes to guys, it is often ranked as one of their ultimate turn-ons. 

So many of my phone sex callers ask me questions about my attraction to women; these are the questions I receive most frequently:sexy fucking girl kiss

“Are you bi-sexual?”
“Do you ever hook up with girls?”
“Have you ever seen your girlfriends naked?”
“Can you tell me about the first time you ever kissed a girl?”
“If you could have sex with any actress, who would it be?”

Let me start by saying that no, I do not consider myself bi-sexual. I truly and whole heartedly believe that women are the most beautiful and exotic creatures on Earth, and I would rather see a woman naked over that of a man, if I’m speaking aesthetically. However, in terms of sexual attraction and who I want to get off and get me off, I’m 100% into guys.

Having said that, I also must confess though, that I have had very strong physical attractions to women.  This might confuse a lot of people who want to label me as “bi.” My feeling is that a sexy female body is a turn on, no question about it. However, just because it’s a visual stimulation for me doesn’t mean I have an overwhelming desire to physically act on that. I mean, if a guy I’m attracted to is in front of me with a hard-on, it’s a natural instinct to want to get on my knees and suck him off or to climb on top of him and ride his cock till we both explode. That animalistic need has to be fed and the only way I can feel satisfied is to have it then and there. When I see a woman, however, it’s a different feeling. If a girl I found to be the ultimate perfection of the female figure was in front of me, legs spread wide open and wet as can be, I wouldn’t have that same instinct to bury my face between her legs and taste her. It’s not that overwhelming craving that I would feel with a man; instead, it’s an appreciation, an admiration, and will likely be a turn on that makes me wet. That doesn’t mean I’m going to dive in and eat the girl out, though.tumblr_mn5ti6pyzf1qfw572o1_500

As a young woman I’ve experienced first-hand over and over again the overwhelming intrigue shown by guys if you even tease them a little bit about doing something sexual with another girl. I know there’s a joke among generations older than mine about women going through a “phase” in college where they make out with and hook up with their girlfriends. For my generation of millennials, it’s much less a “phase” and far more something you learn very quickly throughout middle school and high school as a tactic to get the attention of boys.There are some things us young girls do with our friends in private when we’re growing up that boys never get to see. However, we tend to exaggerate some of our intimate practices and go public with our displays of female affection as soon as a cute boy at a party suggests it would be hot to see two girls kiss. Whether we’re into our friends or not, if we’re a couple drinks deep, everyone is having fun, and we’re living on the high of being the center of attention, kissing our friends is a really fucking easy way to turn heads.

I can remember as far back as late elementary school at sleepovers with friends. Late at night, we’d all talk about what it will be like to kiss a boy. I mean, some of us already had what we considered a “first kiss.” Maybe a peck stolen on the playground or a kid in the neighborhood who would run around and tease us, only to one day plant one on us. Yet, we all, even at that young age, knew that a REAL first kiss was around the corner, so in our adorable little pajamas, in our sleeping bags, we would hsexy socks - girl-on-girlave little “practice sessions.” We’d put our hands into fists, and kiss the fleshy part of our skin, critiquing one another on technique, as though any of us at that time had any idea what we were talking about.A couple of times some of the braver girls might dare one of us to kiss each other;this would usually end up being a little charade where one would pretend to be the “boy” and the other would be the “girl about to be kissed.” It usually resulted in laughing, teasing each other about our little schoolgirl crushes, and going to sleep still really confused and anxious about whether or not boys would want to kiss us and if we’d be any good at it. Little did we know about the storm of attention we would be getting within a few short years, and that those little “practice” sessions could be reenacted in our teen years with a level of comfort and ease with one another that is unique to girls who share moments like these with their friends.

So, to answer some more of my FAQ’s, I wouldn’t label what I’ve done throughout the last few years as “hooking up” with girls. Have I seen many of my girlfriends naked? Yes. Have I kissed or made out with a few of them? Uh huh. Have I been in the same room with any of my girlfriends when they were naked and getting fucked? Ummm… yes, actually I have! haha. Was I an active participant in that particular activity? Nope! I had my own situation going on in a separate bed, with a separate guy. But, like I said earlier, there is something very visually stimulating about the female body, even when it’s one of your hot friends with whom you basically grew up as sisters.  While I have kissed my best friend (and other friends) in party moments to tease boys, while we regularly get dressed and undressed in front of one another without hesitation, and while I have even seen her in the aforementioned position of getting it on (and she can say the same about me), I still can without any hesitation whatsoever tell you that I have ZERO interest in going down on her, spreading her apart, or putting anything inside her.

I find the fascination and interest a lot of men have with girls making out and lesbian porn to becurious. I always wonder what, beyond the physical attraction, makes this such a popular porn niche when there are alternative options of seeing hot girls go crazy on some guy’s cock. I personally reallylike watching porn from time to time. I started watching it online at a relatively young age and learned kissesso much about sex from dirty videos. In fact, even as a straight girl, I almost always look for a super hot woman in a porn clip before I even care about the content or her “co-star.” I love one-on-one male/female fucking, I like a little variety from time to time, so 3-some videos are super hot and depending on my mood or what catches my eye I can go for  either 2 guys/1 girl or 2 girls/1 guy. So, as you can see, I obviously GET what’s such a turn on about women…. I GET that it’s hot to watch girls do nasty sexual things to each other in a 3-some setting while some guy is fucking them, switching back and forth between the two.

I’m really interested to know, however, what guys tend to love about full out lesbian girl-on-girl fingering, fucking, and pussy eating? Is it the fact that you don’t see another guy in the equation, therefore you can imagine yourself to have them all to yourself? Is it the voyeuristic nature of catching girls being naughty, doing something they wouldn’t want you to see them doing? It is just a simple as jerk-off material where you don’t have to worry about seeing some guys dick and you can focus solely on the female body?

I’d love to hear any thoughts or insight into what you (if this is your thing, that is) find particularly sexy about 2 (or more) women going crazy on one another. Personally, I’ve never even watched a lesbian porn video, so if there’s a particular one that is your favorite that you think could convince even the most cock-hungry girl to give up the dick for a minute and play with myself while watching 2 girls fuck, send it my way! Maybe you’ll open my eyes to something new or maybe I’ll just be extra ravenous for your hard, thick dick, ready for  you to give me a call and take me like only a fucking man can.

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