In the Mood: Ryder’s Sex Playlist

It doesn’t take much to get me “in the mood,” but there are certain triggers that I have, just as anyone might have, that really sets the tone for some exceptional sexy time.

HeadphoneGirlOne of my true passions, aside from sex itself, is music. It’s not something that comes up very often as a topic of conversation when I take calls on NiteFlirt, and I’m certain there’s a large difference between the type of music that I listen to versus that of many of my “gentlemen callers” who, for the most part, are much older than I am. Aside from just simply being a huge music fan of various genres, I truly believe that music is one of the sexiest forms of entertainment on the planet. Yes, images whether they are pieces of art, erotic movies, or glossy high fashion pictures in magazines, can all be aphrodisiacs. However, what we hear can be just as sensual, hot, and intoxicating as what we are seeing when our partner is in front of us. I’ve never felt anything but absolutely, crazy sexy when on the dance floor moving my body in sequence with a song that has my hips swaying from side to side and my hands slowly and sensually running down my body as I get lost in the euphoria of that contagious vibe going around the club. I’ve had my body pressed against strangers, grinding against me, eyes making contact, and hands all over me as the music creates an escape for us all, and I’ve even had some of the best fucking of my life to pumping sounds coming from a party playlist and some of the most intimate love making to an artist or song that just continuously gets me wet between my legs.

SexyMusicCoupleSo, in a little bit of a departure from my usual blog musings, I am inspired to share some of my favorite songs to add to any “Sex Playlist” to get you in the mood. Whether it’s during a fuck-session, while you’re sneaking away to stroke during some private “you” time, or to get you pumped up before/during/after giving ME, your favorite little flirty girl a call on NiteFlirt, I hope that you take my advice and seek out some of my favorite sexy songs that get me going every time.

Ride by Ciara feat. Ludacris

GirlOnTopYou kinda can’t go wrong with a slow tempo R&B song about how good a sexy girl is gonna ride it, right? This is the type of song that empowers a woman to take control over her man and have the absolute confidence in knowing “he loves the way I ride it.” Being on top is my absolute favorite position (among a long list of favorite positions hehe), so this song definitely makes it onto my playlist for when I’m feeling frisky and rowdy and needing to take a guy just how I want to.

Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry

As you’ll tell by this list, I’m a much bigger fan of R&B, Pop, and Hip Hop than I am of rock music. However, this particular song is not only on most of my workout and running playlists, it’s the song I fantasize about giving a very special guy an insanely hot striptease and lap dance to. Of course, that would lead up to him throwing me down and losing complete control, letting absolutely go of any inhibitions while fucking hard, rough, and dirty.CrazyBitch

Kiss It Better by Rihanna

Rihanna is my everything when it comes to music worship, and it’s tough to narrow down her sexy songs, so she’s on this list twice. This song is off of her newest album and quickly has risen to one of KissItBettermy favorite songs of hers. On a literal level this song is about a complicated relationship that seems to be falling apart, and needing to work toward piecing it back together. However, I cannot listen to “Kiss It Better” without needing to make out with someone, have his hands all over my body, and completely have him bury his head between my legs for hours. To me the double meaning of “kiss it better” has more to it than putting a bandaid on a torn relationship. The entire vibe of this song is seeping with sexual energy, which is obviously a testament to Rihanna herself who oozes sex appeal in everything she does. As many of my callers can attest, when you’re addicted to that one person, nothing is gonna do it for you other than them, and as Rihanna says in this song, “no one else gonna get it like that, you here to take me back, who cares when it feels like crack?”

The Hills by The Weeknd

The only other artist that is on here twice, TheWeekndThe Weeknd’s 2015 album is a raunchy sex album in itself. This song gets sexier the more you listen to it, and you realize that it’s kind of an anthem for a player who is after nothing more than pussy and makes no apologies for it. In turn, it highlights that the girls he fucks only really want him for sex, too. I love the honest portrayal of knowingly putting the priority of getting off far above that of making personal connections or relationships, because it’s true to how life sometimes is. Lyrics like “I only call you when it’s half past five, the only time I’d ever call you mine” and “I just fucked two bitches before I saw you, you’re gonna have to do it at my tempo …. I’m just tryin’ to live life for the moment and all these motherfuckers want a real love.” Sometimes we just want to fuck for the sake of fucking, and this song’s lyrics and beat invite listeners to join in on accepting ourselves for the sexual, horny, and fucked up creatures that we all have the tendency to be.

Darling Nikki by Prince

Looking online just about every search of “sex songs” or “playlists to fuck to” will turn up at least one song by Prince. This particular song speaks to me because it’s very much about fantasy, beginning with an image of “Nikki” that he uses to masturbate to, escalating in either a real sexual encounter or his fantasies of a sexual encounter, all the result of the intoxication he has felt because of this woman’s power over his body Stereoand mind. I feel like this song is somewhat championing sex workers, whether intentionally or not in how “Darling Nikki” is there whenever he needs to fuck or jerk off, she will be there to meet his needs as her note states, “call me up whenever you want to grind.” She can be there physically, but it’s the mental image of her, her apparent superiority to other women, and her mere existence which has driven this man to madness and opened his eyes to sexually empowered women running the show. The music itself is erotic, hypnotizing, and perfect to dance and have some dirty fuck sessions to.

Partition by BeyoncePartition

Although I love my Bey most when she’s serving
her man “Lemonade,” this particular song will get me in the mood 100% of the time. All about a girl getting ready to hit the club but her man just taking her before she’s even able to get out the door to meet her girlfriends. The beat is erotic and worthy to ride a man’s cock to, and the pace of the song builds throughout, slowing down again into the perfect hip grinding and climactic  rhythms. Even if you think you don’t like Beyonce, I dare you not to get hard listening to this song.

Good for You by Selena Gomez

I could easily make a top 10 list of sultry and sexy SelGoodForYouena Gomez songs, so narrowing down to just one wasn’t easy. Honorable mention goes to the obvious “Hands to Myself,” the sweaty club rendition of “Slow Down,” or the dripping with sex, “Come and Get It.” I’m sure not a whole lot of grown men, like those of you reading this, think of her music as anything more than radio-friendly hits, but Selena has solidified her place in the music industry as one of the most outgoing, sexually expressive, and stimulating artists. Her songs are dripping with seduction, most notably “Good for You.” Every time I hear this song, I just want to roll around in my bed and slip my hands between my legs, fantasizing about whoever I’m crushing on at the moment and all the ways I can look and be good for him in bed as “I just wanna show you how proud I am to be yours and leave this dress a mess on the floor.” Much like Selena Gomez in this song, I can absolutely make you trust me that I’ll take you there, and that I’ll give it to you so hard during this song that you’ll never want to leave.

Motivation by Kelly Rowland feat. Lil WayneSexyDancing

I’m very confident that none of you would need that extra push of motivation if you were having sex with me, but there’s something so sensual and stunning about this descriptive song of encouragement by Kelly Rowland to the guy who’s giving it to her good. From telling him when to go faster, when to slow down, when to keep hitting that right spot, when to switch positions, and more, she reminds her man that “baby I’m gonna be your motivation” and it’s so fucking hot. Anyone on the edge of complete ecstasy would find themselves following along to Kelly’s song with their partner as the music, lyrics, and soulfulness within the song enhances your sexy-time together.

 

Earned it by The Weeknd

RomanticKissWhat kind of girl would I be if I didn’t put aside the fucking “bitches” and “hoes” songs for one that’s a true romantic, love-making ballad. Nothing makes a girl more ready and willing to spread her legs than being told she’s beautiful, perfect, and worth every single thing in the world. I mean, compliments even trump money and gifts when it comes to getting me all tingly and ready to go. Lyrics like “I’m gonna care for you, cause girl you’re perfect, you’re always worth it, and you deserve it, the way you work it, cause girl you’ve earned it” let’s The Weeknd’s muse become fairly confident that she’s about to have some fucking incredible orgasms, cause her man is all about pleasing her. This song has been solidified as a sexy tune thanks to being included on the “50 Shades of Grey” movie soundtrack; however, it’s truly a credit to The Weeknd’s ability to use the smoothness of his voice and seduction of his music to get any man or woman ready to go a few rounds. “Earned It” is a sure thing for any playlist that’s the backdrop of some sexual action or the perfect tool for any man trying to get a girl into bed.

Rude Boy by Rihanna

RiRi.jpgBack to my favorite bad girl, RiRi, this is one of the hottest songs on the planet to me. It’s a big club and dance hit, making it ideal to move your body to and my friends and I have it on just about every single playlist for our life. However, it’s truly the perfect song to fuck to. It’s all about both partners completely taking what they want from one another in the moment and not letting anything hold them back. She tells her “Rude Boy” that “tonight I’m gonna let you be the captain, I’m gonna let you do your thing” and that she’s gonna “give it to you harder and gonna turn your body out.” The acoustics of vocals and a sexy, repetitive chorus and beat are perfect for any music compilation to accompany a long night together of ongoing fucking and the exact kind of song that makes me extremely eager to hop on top and give my man the ride of his life.

Those are my top ten songs that make a sex playlist, and I hope you follow the links to the videos and check them out as you picture you and I together. I would love to not only hear some of your thoughts about MY list, but curious about what songs would make YOUR fuck-time playlist as well. Either tweet me some suggestions @FlirtRyderDoll or message or call me on NiteFlirt with your own sexy song titles or artists who put you in the mood!

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