Erotic Bedtime Stories

Imaginative Storytelling

I’ve always had an incredibly creative mind. My ability to, on the spot, come up with compelling and detailed scenarios is one of the strengths that has made me such a successful phone sex girl. From a very young age I loved to read, write, play dress up, and play “make believe.” Still, as a young woman I love creating tales for my callers to tantalize them and keep them coming back for more. My role play phone calls as well as my fantasy mp3 goodies have helped me to rise to the top of popular flirts on NiteFlirt. Putting myself into the role of a character can be fun and exciting, allowing me to experience levels of pleasure and eroticism that I otherwise might not experience.

To be clear, I am very much myself when a man calls my line on NiteFlirt. When I’m asked personal questions, I answer honestly about myself (within the boundaries that I’m willing to share). Some types of calls don’t require an external fantasy scenario; these are the callers that get the true version of myself. Then, there are the calls that request for a specific role to be acted out. I’m not playing a character 24/7 with my clientele – I am ME – Ryder – the real girl exploring her sexuality with horny men while managing to set aside a pretty nice saving account for when I’m out of college! However, one of the beauties of phone sex is that of being able to create role plays and play dress up. Only, unlike when I was a kid, this is a very much adult version of “make believe,” only suitable for those mature enough to play along.

It can be thrilling to take on characteristics that aren’t normally ones I possess. Playing around with a concept or character offered by a caller, and stepping up to the challenge to see what new ideas I can bring to their fantasy is incredibly rewarding. Having phone sex can be easy; however, to be GOOD at phone sex and offer callers individualized and original calls is much more challenging than just moaning and talking dirty.

Being good at phone sex role plays takes the willingness to let your imagination wander. A good storyteller allows his or her mind to travel and wander down unchartered or unexpected territory. Without a creative mind, men calling a woman on a phone sex line might experience predictable or sometimes repetitive calls, and let’s be honest – when you’re paying for phone fun and want to get off, who the fuck wants the same exact experience, character, and narrative every single time? OK, to be fair…. some of you definitely DO want that! However, as a caller I imagine you would want your flirt to do some improvisation, to keep you on your toes, and to make you excited for what new angle she’ll take with your fantasy or new way that she’ll approach the narrative in a future call.

I believe that the element of a strong imagination is why so many new flirts feel nerves, self-consciousness, or don’t last very long in adult entertainment. Storytelling isn’t for everyone; but, those of us who are good at it can offer incredible, one-of-a-kind role play experiences that will surpass the years your own imagination has explored your favorite fantasies. If you haven’t ran a fantasy by a good adult storyteller, it’s time for you to start your own search for a favorite girl to bring your fantasies to a whole new, outstandingly erotic and sensual level. 

Every Good Story Needs a Climax

The power that a good story holds can affect the listener both physically and emotionally. Just like the fairytale bedtime stories of my childhood, strong character development and an exciting narrative keep the listener invested and involved, on the edge of his seat waiting for the climactic point of the tale and the release that comes with it.

If you’ve yet to talk to me about my personal interests, reading is a big passion of mine. I’m almost always reading a book – usually some kind of mystery or suspense or young adult type novel, but I have a genuine appreciation for good writing and story development. I have always been the teacher’s pet of my English classes throughout my education, taking A.P. Literature classes that forced me to read classics that became some of my favorite books. I love how words can transcend a page, add a romanticism and connection to characters in stories to my own life, despite laying in bed alone with my Kindle in hand. 

I’m in no way going to claim to be an all-star writer, but I do believe that being an avid reader has made my storytelling come alive in my phone sex world. Knowing how to frame a scene, how to portray my character as a realistic, full personality who has complexities to her are important in role playing a caller’s fantasy.

Want me to be your domineering babysitter? A bratty spoiled socialite? A cute, innocent little virgin? Your cheating girlfriend? Your controlling boss? A naive stranger? 

In reality, I’m none of these things but I CAN be all of these things. Based on my own personal experiences as a young woman, an understanding of the complexities of the human personality, the ability to utilize vocabulary and voice delivery that suits your tale, and just simply the knowledge that I am in control of a story and my imagination is the limit. Those are the elements that drive you over the edge, climbing up that peak to the climactic point of the story where you reach that highest point of excitement. It is there at the climax that allows the pay off of being fully invested mentally and physically; you explode and feel the euphoria of that release settle.  

When a man chooses to call me I oftentimes don’t know what particular fantasy he may suggest or want to explore. It’s my job to take a little bit of information from him, and take the reigns. I move forward into setting up a world where I’m providing a sensual, erotic, and hypnotizing experience, a bedtime story of sorts that transcends the listener to a world outside of reality. The character, situation, and experiences come alive. When I, in detail, lay there with a man on a call, with my eyes closed, imagining every aspect of the story I improvise, we are both displaced to this other exciting world. We are both taken outside of ourselves where the role play can feel so real.

I hope that when a fantasy role play call with me ends, you, as the caller, feel like you experienced an escape, like a great book or story can provide. As I tailor a role play to your tastes and fetishes, you’ll explore an exhilarating ride that will, before bedtime, calm you down and serve a satisfying relief. Yet, like any good addicting story or storyteller, I’ve created an anticipation, curiosity, and intrigue as to what new, dirty, sexy stories can come from my naughty and deviant mind during our next call.

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More Than a Pretty Face

No matter where I go, I feel people’s eyes on me.

Some might say I’m paranoid,and others might say I’m conceited. In reality, I know there might be many possible reasons that people are looking at me, all of which don’t equate to me being complete and total hot shit. I’m humble enough of a person to not think the absolute world of myself. Yet, for years now, wherever I go, I feel people watching.

I am not the type of girl who necessarily looks for attention every time I leave the house. Sure, if my friends and I are out and dressed in our cute little mini-skirts and high heel stilettos, looking for flattery, flirtatiousness, and fun, I might set out to turn heads. However, in my day-to-day life of going to Starbucks, going to class, going for a run in the park, going to a yoga class, going out to dinner or lunch with a friend, and going back to my dorm, I’m definitely not thirsty for an all-eyes-on-Ryder party.

Yet, it happens. Every. Single. Day.

A couple of years ago I read a blog written by a hot girl who “complained” about the stresses of going through life being beautiful. Social media tore this girl apart. When you’re a woman and you know you’re attractive you can rest assured you’ll be met with a predetermined set of reactions from people any time your attractiveness might be mentioned. The usual emotions from other women are that of envy and jealousy. When you’re a woman who is attractive and let’s the world KNOW she knows that she is attractive… watch out…. the full wrath is coming, particularly by other women who would rather tear an attractive woman down than show any sign of empathy or understanding for having something valuable to say about how her looks might directly impact the way she is able to walk through life.

Reading the “poor me, I’m beautiful” blog by that girl resonated with me, though. My entire life I’ve been complimented on my looks. From friends, to family, to acquaintances, to strangers, the topic of my beauty was ingrained in my mind from a very young age. From my straight teeth, my piercing eyes, my symmetrical face, and my petite frame, my good looks and all the compliments I receive about them have certainly given me a healthy dose of confidence at my young age. Having an older brother and two bratty sisters helped keep me grounded. Also, my parents, both good looking in their own right, kept us all humble through the very careful ways they taught us that looks are on the surface, but what you have in your mind, heart, and soul make up the complete person that you become.

My looks benefit me in many ways, but I’d be lying if I didn’t feel they also held me back at times. Sure, being beautiful gets me tons of calls on NiteFlirt which is fantastic for me. However, it also gets me unwanted attention by strangers who try to dissect me and make assumptions that while I have beauty to offer the world, I must in no way have anything else valuable to give.

The fact is, I love being pretty. However, more so I love that I am smart, funny, and a positive and energetic person to be around. My smile and eyes may visually radiate when I enter a room, but it’s my ability to hold a conversation about anything you can imagine. I have callers on NiteFlirt with whom I’ve spent hours discussing politics, literature, movies, relationships, philosophical issues, and so much more. While I am young, I have a mind that soaks in whatever I learn and when it comes to things I do not know, I have a youthful energy of inquisitiveness that wants to learn more and more every day.

There’s that old adage that you should “never judge a book by its cover.” I am a prime example of proving people’s assumptions wrong. I’ve been on many first dates where the guy expects me to sit there and look pretty and put out at the end of the night, but is surprised when I have interesting and witty things to say. It’s true that one’s physical appearance makes a first impression, but to me, I value my intelligence, personality, and charisma above my pretty face.

So, next time you see a hot girl on the street or all of the gorgeous images of drop dead beautiful flirts on NiteFlirt, don’t just assume that we only have our physicality and sexuality to offer to you. Phone sex and any intimate interactions in life can mean so much more than just a superficial physical level and while I am incredibly happy you love my face and get turned on by my body, I know that you will be missing the best parts of me if that’s all you choose to focus on during our time together.

Are you willing to delve deeper than your physical and sexual connection with your favorite phone sex girls? Go ahead and try me! Nothing is sexier than a man who tells me he fell in love with my mind over that of my hot, young bod. If you’ve been missing out in emotional and deep connections in your daily relationships or your phone sex relationships, it’s time to pick up the phone and call a girl who can offer you so much more than dirty talk and sexy pictures.

I will climb into your head and stimulate you in ways that will keep you craving for more. We’ll grow to have a mutual caring relationship for one another, where sex talk is just the cherry on top of a beautiful relationship that comes from taking the time to appreciate all parts of me rather than just what’s on the surface.

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A Great Season for Role Play Phone Sex

There are many reasons that autumn is my favorite season. For one, the heat and humidity of summer seems to dissipate and the cool nights and beautiful, breezy days are a welcome change. Even though it’s the start of the school season, it’s also the start of sexy boots and leggings weather and pumpkin spice everything. It’s the season of my birthday (no big deal). Plus, it is the perfect time to act out all our naughty little fantasies that have festered all year long with some fucking incredible role play phone sex!

Growing up in and living in New England I’m spoiled by the four seasons and all the typical fall traditions leading up to Halloween. I might be a college girl, but every year I still carve pumpkins, take joy in reading scary stories, and have even been known to partake in the debauchery of Mischief Night. Most of all, I, like every other college girl at this time, find myself in the ultimate and absolute late-October panic of trying to figure out what the hell to dress up as for Halloween!
Do I go with dressing as a sexy two sexy beautiful brunette semi nude police women with long curly hair with handcuffs in fashion glasses with birght makeup and red lips isolated on whitesuperhero? Sexy animal? Sexy athlete? Sexy fairytale character? Sexy villain or something else? The one common theme here, is that it’s got to be sexy, slutty, revealing, and grab the attention of everyone at whatever parties I’ll be attending. When it comes to Halloween, it’s the one night a year EVERY girl is expected to play her sluttiest role! There’s no market for most realistic witch, most well executed flapper, or most historically accurate Marie Antoinette. Nope. It’s all about short skirts, tight latex, and super-duper high heel shoes. Part of the appeal to dress up on Halloween goes beyond just the desire for attention. So much of the fun is due to playing the part and keeping in character so that for just a brief moment you feel like someone other than yourself.

Aside from trying to figure out what to dress up as for Halloween, I love the lore and mystery surrounding the holiday. I love that we celebrate a night each year where people are encouraged to step into the role of someone or something else. This reminds me of what I offer to guys on NiteFlirt. In role play phone sex, the ability to mask yourself as whomever and whatever you choose is the name of the game. I step into the service provider role of offering whatever it is a guy is looking for. This creates fantasy role play phone sex experiences where we can both play around with a broad range of fantasies from the comfort of our own homes and the anonymity of never being judged for it. It’s fun to put on masks of different characters. In truth, it’s more often than not that a man is removing his everyday mask to show his true self in our call. Whichever way you look at it, role play phone sex is much like Halloween. It’s all about fantasy, play time, excitement, and make-believe.

 

Unveiling Your Mask with Role Play Phone Sex

Whenever a man calls my NiteFlirt line, I am completely honest when asked about my basic demographics. For instance, where I live, where I go to school, my age, my background, and my sexual and personal interests are all fair game when an inquisitive mind wants to know. This type of information exchange is helpful for callers who want to truly get to know me before getting to the steamy stuff. Men looking for girlfriend experiences rely on honesty so they can see if I’m the woman they want to invest their time and money into for regular relationship calls. Men who want to find one or two particular girls he can be a loyal caller to will want to be choosy and make sure he clicks and has true chemistry with his flirt of choice.

However, many men who call phone sex sites like NiteFlirt are not necessarily looking for this “getting to know you” back and forth. Even if they are looking to get to know who I really am, when it comes time to talk sex, they prefer to play around with different roles and situations. In essence, we are not having phone sex as “ourselves;” we are playing roles in order to cater to and create your ultimate fantasy. A man might click my listing but despite who I actually am, he approaches the call with a specific role, character, or concept already in mind.

It’s my job as a phone sex provider to try to adapt to whatever role a guy is asking me to play. In my personal life, I prefer to be more sexually submissive. Yet, if a guy wants to be cuckolded, be locked in a cock cage, and denied masturbation just because I tell him “no” then I become the sadistic mistress who I would never be in real life. It’s such an exciting, interesting, and eye-opening role to be in. I get to witness a man peel back the facade of his everyday face and reveal a version of himself hidden from plain view.

I believe that phone sex, more so than any other adult entertainment form, allows each of us to completely change our perception of ourselves and our sexual experiences thanks to the power of fantasy role play. Fantasy role play phone sex opens the door to celebrate endless amounts of sexy scenarios that each of our minds can conjure.

In role play phone sex calls, I’ve played the sexy and heroic super girl. I’ve stepped into the glass slippers of a Disney Princess. More often than not, I’m the perfect homewrecking babysitter or bratty cheerleader who rules the coaches cock. I’m occasionally the desperate young woman who gets lost on her way home at night and needs to find the help of a mysterious stranger. On any given night I can be an obedient little slut. I can also be a humiliatrix who will make you fear me. The beauty of fantasy role play phone sex is that it has no bounds. Our call can defy time, place, reality, and push the imagination to new levels of eroticism that cannot be experienced in real life. The mind can summon dark, disturbing, unique, unpredictable and even hilarious situations that both you and I never thought possible.

Whenever a man completes a role play phone sex call with me, my hope would be that when he reflects on it, he can’t wait to come back and play some more. The small details that I try to provide to create a sense of reality in a fantasy world should and do make men become role play phone sex addicts. Your mind should be constantly racing with new and exciting roles we can play, much like how someone would run through all the potential characters he or she can be when dressing up for a Halloween party.

The Essentials of Role Play Phone Sex

A couple things are required for great role play phone sex calls. The first is to have an open mind and willingness to follow the call wherever it takes us. oct-blog-role-play-phone-sex-4Being a creative person is extremely helpful, though as long as the phone sex provider you call can offer creativity, you can rely on her to take you where you want to be. Another helpful attribute for great role play phone sex experiences is to be able to put aside any self-judgment and allow yourself to let go, regardless of how outrageous an idea may seem in the onset.

In your fantasy role play phone sex calls with me, come prepared with a basic scenario or role that turns you on. Then lay back, let your mind erase all sense of your real world. Allow me to paint the scene for you, as we both open up a world of make believe. Role play phone sex is the most appealing way to put on the visage of someone other than yourself.  Don’t wait for a masked Halloween night that comes once a year. Instead, call me on NiteFlirt for amazing role play phone sex calls that can transport you into the role of someone new each and every night of the year.

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Ryder’s Red Hot, Sexy Summer

Have you been having a sexy summer? I have!

I’m well aware that I’ve been onsexy summer a serious hiatus with my blog writing this summer. Blame my sexy summer days by the beach and pool with friends, blame my incredible vacation to Italy that put me in a “disconnected from the world” state of mind, or blame yourselves – my many phone sex partners who keep me up so late at night, exhausting me from anything else in the world to the point where my mind is filled with sleep, fogginess, and just a constant hunger to cum rather than writing about it 😉

 

My Sexy Summer on Twitter

If you are wondering what I’ve been up to all summer now is as good a time as any to follow me on Twitter, where I’ve been very active lately! My handle is @FlirtRyderDoll – and while I know that many of you don’t want to mix RL with PSL (Real Life with Phone Sex Life, that is) there’s no reason you can’t create a “Phone Sex” or “NiteFlirt” related Twitter account to follow me and your other favorite flirts. You’ll benefit from getting to know me on a much more intimate level, feeling like you’re not only in my head since you know what I’m thinking but also to feel like you’re just an everyday part of my life due to ongoing communication any time of day or night. Also, you’ll get immediate updates and when I am signed on and off of NiteFlirt… and if you’re in dire need of me, you can tweet me and it instantly sends a notification to my phone. Much better than relying on NiteFlirt mail that I might not see until hours after you’ve sent it.Tempted yet? Create an account and follow me @FlirtRyderDoll!

 

My Sexy Summer on NiteFlirt

I’ve also updated my Goodies offerings with several new itemsexy summers throughout the course of this sexy summer. I’ve got everything from JOI (Jerk Off Instruction) to Fantasy Role Plays to extreme filthy talk to a 60 minute very intimate and personal Q & A session with yours trulyIf you have not checked these out yet, make sure you do. Use them as an escape from your daily life and use me and my voice as the ultimate form of Viagra that will keep you not only ROCK hard, but cumming non-stop like never before.

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My Sexy Summer in Italy

romeAside from my shameless self-promotions (#sorrynotsorry) my summer has been absolutely amazing. I took a 2-week vacation to Italy, where I travelled to 4 different regions on what was my first ever “solo” vacation. I was with one of my best friends and college roomie, but by “solo” I mean without my parents or without my school. My previous 2 trips to Europe were high school trips, to Barcelona and to London, and several years ago my family went overseas on a two week adventure to Ireland and Northern Ireland. Italy was my first time abroad as an adult, and wow did I make the most of it! I travelled to Rome, Florence, the Cinque Terre, and Venice & Verona and saw the most amazingly incredible sites and experienced the best that food, lifestyle, and culture had to offer.

I’m very fortunate to have such a prosperous job for a 19-year-old girl davidthat I was not only able to make this trip happen, but that I was able to live like a fucking baller for the entire 2 weeks I was there. I mean, since I’ve been home I’ve put myself on financial lock-down in order to save money for when I go back to school, but while there, I saw everything and anything my heart desired, I drank wine with every meal (hello, 18yo drinking age!), I soaked in the mediterranean sun and beaches, I flirted and enjoyed excursions with men who didn’t even speak English, and I spoiled myself rotten. I couldn’t be happier and my friend and I are already brainstorming ideas of where to travel next summer. Anyone have suggestions?

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Looking Forward to a Sexy Fall

As mansexy summery of you can probably agree, summer has soared past … I don’t know what happened to July and can’t believe that 3-weeks from now I’ll be packing my bags again and heading back to Boston for my sophomore year of school. I’ve been asked by a lot of guys lately what they can do for me, so if you’re feeling generous and want to contribute to “Ryder’s Back-to-School” fund, you can always send me a tribute or shop off my Amazon List to surprise me with some goodies for when I head back to a busy, busy year. Maybe instead you want to fund my back-to-school wardrobe? You can always tribute me on NiteFlirt or send specific store gift cards to my email address at RyderDoll1123@gmail.com. Anything and everything you guys do for me, I’m continuously grateful for! 

 

Aside from this update, I’m working on some ideas for another blog post in the coming days or hours, so make sure to check back and as always, don’t forget to give me a call soon so you can have some dirty talk and a naughty fuck with your favorite little flirt!


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Our Secret Truths

24d6c0ba3da59d59628c51e1e448a98aI recently saw a very powerful and memorable film, the Oscar nominated, The Danish Girl, starring Eddie Redmayne and Alicia Vikander (my most recent Hollywood girl-crush; more on that another time! hehe). Possibly because I am always so wrapped up in thinking about my work on NiteFlirt, I couldn’t help but be struck by some of the parallels in this film and what I experience working in phone sex! So many of us tend to have sides of ourselves that are hidden from the people who think they know us best: whether it’s our friends, family, or significant others, there are some deeply hidden secrets that are kept from these people for one reason or another. 

the-danish-girl-poster-wideFor those of you who may not know, the movie I am referring to is the true story of a successful artist as he, with the support of his wife, transitions into becoming a woman. The film follows the intimate psychological, physical, and sexual tensions that arose for one of the first people to ever undergo sexual reassignment transition and surgery. To be clear, this is not a post on transgenderism specifically, nor is it in any way something anyone reading this needs to understand or even agree with. I bring it up because there is one scene in the film that very strongly resonated with me that made me look at my own work on NiteFlirt and in phone sex and the lives of so many of us out there who are harboring some kind of secret, be it a fetish or a lifestyle preference.  

DanishGirlIn The Danish Girl, there is a scene where the artist reaches out to non other than a sex worker to truly guide him in his search for feminization. He visits a peep show, where he sits behind a glass that separates him from the beautiful dancer who strips before him. Performing what was a regular nightly routine that she at first appears detached from, the dancer quickly realizes that the man watching her behind the glass is NOT there to get off, but instead sitting there imitating her movements. In a sort of beautiful, personal, and honest moment between the two, the dancer slows down her movements to become instructional rather than for the erotic purpose of turning him on, as she’s so often used to. She demonstrates for this man, who is embarking on a journey to become a woman, the ways to move his body, his hands, bat his eyes, and explore his body in the way a woman might. It’s the first time in the film that he truly seems to feel comfortable in his own skin, despite the efforts of his wife and friends to guide him and understand him, it took a woman in the sex industry to recognize this need for guidance, for an outlet, and for a sincere moment in which he could truly feel his true self, shame-free. 

I love this scene because in that moment you can see that the woman understands that she is one of the few people and places that this man in need can turn to in order to explore his true self. 

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In connection to my NiteFlirt gig, while I do get calls from time to time of men who want to experience feminization, the impact reaches far beyond that. From guys who simply want to explore a particular fetish that may be otherwise “taboo” in real like, to people looking to play out outrageous fantasies they might never dream to act on in their day-to-day interactions. From feeling a departure from one’s usual role in life as a dominant or a submissive, to using language that would get them fired or shunned from their social groups, to simply exploring sexuality and engaging in acts with a parter who is not judgmental nor uninterested. I find every single day that men call me and are able to, even if in some small way, become their true selves or their secret selves or their forbidden selves even if just for a few minutes on the phone. 

dom1I adore that when it comes to phone sex, a stranger is reaching out to me and is uninhibited in the way that he can behave. I’d be lying if I said I was never weary or confused about particular fetishes; I’ve even myself been known to block a guy or two who took things to a dark enough place that I became disturbed and wouldn’t want to go to again (though this happens VERY rarely!) However, overall, on a daily basis, I speak to and meet amazing people who live completely normal, average lives. They just know that there is a side to their personality that has been or is being repressed and they need an outlet for it. I love being that outlet. I love knowing that I can carry their secrets with me if it brings them even a little bit of comfort. I love knowing that, at times, I experience a side of my callers that their closest friends or family might never see. With me, a man can be his true self. Whether it’s due to a sexual deviance or it’s because he needs a person to turn to or a shoulder to cry on or another human being to vent to, I believe that phone sex work is oftentimes SO MUCH MORE than just jerking off and cumming hard.

That isn’t to say that it’s not about jerking off. I mean, c’mon…. I’m not fooling myself into thinking I’m doing some incredible work I should be winning a Nobel Prize for. I just feel that whether it’s a 5-minute stroke session to blow off steam from a long day, or it’s a 15-minute conversation about a fetish that a guy has secretly fantasized about for years but hasn’t been able to bring himself to actually admit to a partner, or it’s a 2-hour marathon call as a result of simply feeling lonely, I really think that making a positive connection between phone sex operator and caller is important to each persons’ experience in understanding themselves.

5317b3bed4529209b4ea69674291a441The best part of all of this for me though, is that several of my callers have been this same outlet for ME. A lot of my life, even though I appear to be “in the middle of the action” as a pretty, popular, and outgoing young girl, I’ve actually always felt that I wasn’t being true to myself in many ways. From dealings with friends, family, and relationships, there have been many times I’ve felt the need to hide aspects of myself for fear of shame, particularly when it comes to sexuality or so-called “deviant” or off-beat desires. However, on NiteFlirt, so many amazing guys have brought that out of me, and I’ve been able to explore those desires that I otherwise wouldn’t have without the help of of the creative, sexy, and extra naughty minds of my callers. 

So yes, I am here to fuck you, suck you, tease you, and tempt you. However, I am also here to give advice, to allow you to explore your needs and desires, to talk you through heartache and hardships, and to empower you in a way that will make you feel alive like never before. 
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Talk Dirty to Me

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It’s no secret that sexual stimulation tends to lower inhibitions, resulting in the animalistic behaviors we all know and love. I for one have been known to say things during sex (and phone sex!) that I would never have predicted would come out of my mouth if I had considered it in a different circumstance. It’s amazing how sexy some words and phrases can be, and when communicated in that particular moment of ecstasy, something that I normally might not consider to be that hot can end up being the hottest fucking thing I’ve ever heard if it’s said at the right place and time while fucking. RyderDoll-solo

Unlike so many of my friends who dreamed of losing their virginity in some sweet way, I was always the one who just wanted to get rid of it and get to the point where I’d be having fun, talking dirty, and getting fucked hard. That being said, I’ve always been a dirty-talker, and in my opinion, a positive side effect of this has been allowing my sexual partners to know exactly what feels good to me and what I want and like, which apparently isn’t always all that common with teenage girls when they begin having sex and exploring their bodies. This isn’t to say that I’m one of those annoying girls who you just want to tell to shut-the-fuck up; I’m just a vocal girl! I like to say nasty things, communicate my desires, and have been known to get loud from time to time, as I’m sure my roommates or anyone else in nearby rooms could probably tell you! 

The topic of dirty-talk came up with some of my friends recently, and our opinions were all over the place in terms of where we stand. Some of my friends were right there with me when it comes to dirty talk, agreeing there are so many ways words can turn sex into an unforgettable adventure. Some of my friends like being called names like a “slut” or to beg a guy for his cock in a certain way (“bend me over and fuck my pussy hard!”). I was surprised that one of my girlfriends says she calls her boyfriend “daddy” sometimes, cause it determines a sexy role of him being older, distinguished, and dominant and plays up her youthful innocence and submissive nature. In contrast, I had friends, who argued that it made them feel uncomfortable or degraded to be called names and that feeding guys’ egos by giving into the stereotype of a “daddy” figure who controls them wasn’t really something that got them off.

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One of my best friends who is a super sexy, outgoing and fun-loving, HOT girl said that she doesn’t like dirty talk at all. Not because she finds it degrading, but she just doesn’t get into talking to her sexual partners during sex, and finds that it’s a distraction for her when the guy is excessive in the things he is moved to say in the moment. Another one of my girlfriends prefers sensual and complimentary words to be exchanged, but nothing that makes her feel too slutty. For instance, she said she’d love to be told she’s beautiful and have her body complimented (who doesn’t!?) but that to be called a name or be too descriptive in a “dirty” way just doesn’t do it for her.

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I for one cannot imagine having quiet sex. Nothing seems as uneventful as taking what is the most amazing physical feeling without having my psyche stimulated at the same time. I love creativity, I love imagination, and I love getting lost in the moment; I believe that “dirty talk” is something that brings out passion that is rarely duplicated when things become hushed. While I would never be okay with being called a “slut” by a guy I’m hooking up with in any setting outside of the bedroom and while I don’t go around inviting guys I meet to shower me with their cum (or whatever other filthy thing that I might say at any given time while caught in crazy passion), it just can’t be denied that when you’re in that intense frenzy of lustful emotions, sometimes things will come out of our mouths that we never could have imagined saying.

beautifulmouthI’ve always known I’ve had a naughty imagination and could verbally bring-it-on when it comes to sex talk, so whether it’s on the phone or in person, I don’t plan to shy away from saying anything that comes into my head in the heat of the moment. One of the great things about hot, racy phone sex sessions is the ability to be ourselves and, whatever we happen to say, we don’t have to have any awkward “pillow talk” discussion or make excuses about it afterwards. There should never be apologies made for those raw, honest, and playful moments between partners, and I’ve been lucky enough to have some very vocal, descriptive, and incredibly creative phone sex partners who have brought my dirty-talk game to a whole new level.

Make sure you check in with me soon on NiteFlirt. I just might surprise you with the crazy things that could slip out of my dirty little mouth. 😉

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Relationship Status

“Why doesn’t a girl like you have a boyfriend?” 

StatusThis question is, quite possibly, one of the things I am most often asked in my life. Not only by guys on NiteFlirt but from family and even some friends. For some reason, I constantly find myself reminding people of my stats: I’m 19, I’m in college, and my single status isn’t a side effect of something being wrong with me; I don’t have a boyfriend because I don’t WANT one right now. I’m constantly being given unsolicited advice from friends in the “honeymoon” phase of their new relationships, or from aunts who have some romanticized idea of planning my wedding (um, have I mentioned I’m 19? haha) and even from old ladies in coffee shops or supermarkets who feel the need to let me know that they’d make a move on the solo-guy in line in front of us if they were “my age.” 

KissIt might sound like the cliché, “I’m single and loving it!” thing that girls say to keep themselves from crying into their lonely pillow at night, but as a young woman who doesn’t fear for my relationship future, right now I’m all about having fun and not getting too serious. As a college student, I constantly see how my friends tied to relationships struggle with their social decisions, and I do not envy them. The amount of times I’ve been told not to tag a friend on Facebook or Instagram because his or her “significant other” can’t know where they are for the night is astounding. I mean, I can’t image being put in the position to lie about who I’m with and where I am…. well, from anyone other than my mom and dad, maybe. Hehe. 

A lot of people think if you’re not Sexy1that loser girl who is pining after some guy waiting for him to become her boyfriend, that you must be the complete opposite type: the slut who is open for business 24/7 or maybe the anti-love “manhater.” I’m none of the above – I am not promiscuous, but i’m not a prude. I am not searching for and in desperate need of love, but I certainly won’t turn my back on the possibility of someone being a great guy who I’d like to be with, if he so happens to come along. I love having the freedom on any given day to say “no, I’m not interested” or to say “fuck yes, let’s do this!” It’s fucking amazing being a young, attractive, single woman who is aware of her own sexuality, and right now I am owning that! 

I know that because I’m single and have sexual freedom, I can experience things that a boyfriend would hold me back from. While I’m this young, hot, and experimental I want to be uninhibited and crazy sometimes. I want to tease and tempt older married men and make out with college boys whose names I can’t remember. I want to have steamy love affairs, scandalous stories to tell, and impassioned conversations with strangers that make me ache for them for days. 

When I start thinking about the entire concept of monogamy it feels somewhat archaic to me. Maybe it’s because of my unique situation as a “flirt” that I find the idea of a traditional relationship to be potentially disappointing and unrealistic. I mean, I am in constant contact with men who would rather rub one out in the bathroom while talking to me, than have to even for a second interact with his annoying, nagging wife. I know which end of that situation I want to be on, and being the hot young temptress is way sexier than the girlfriend or wife who is in the dark and doesn’t know what her man wants or needs. 

This time spent as a single college girl is and will continue to open my eyes to so many things I otherwise may not know about myself and about men. I know what gets me off and what I’m worthy of. I know that anyone who makes me feel modest, embarrassed, or ashamed in any way about what I like or don’t like isn’t someone who deserves me or my time. Yet I also know that if I’m not willing to be selfless and attend to the needs of a guy, then I can’t expect him to just sit around and patiently wait for me until I am “in the mood.” Sex is incredibly important to a successful relationship, and unless you take the time to explore your own sensuality when you have the freedom to do so, I believe you run the risk of ending up in the type of relationship that is mundane, predictable, or unfulfilling. 

So, as Valentine’s Day weekend approaches and guy friends, ex-boyfriends, and classmates who have apparently been admiring me from afar think they are throwing me a bone by asking me out for a V-Day date, I say, “don’t do me any favors!” This Valentine’s Day I won’t be pretending to like the roses a guy got me instead of the lilies I really wanted or be disappointed by the milk chocolate candies when he knows I only like dark. I won’t be annoyed at the fake attempt to give me some contrived version of a “romantic” date night that, in reality, neither of us actually want to go on. Instead, I’ll be going on a kick ass rock climbing/movie/casual dinner “date” with my other single besties, and I know at the end of the night if I’m feeling in need of something more… I have my own fingers and about a dozen boyfriends on NiteFlirt who know exactly how to take care of me! 

 

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