In the Mood: Ryder’s Sex Playlist

It doesn’t take much to get me “in the mood,” but there are certain triggers that I have, just as anyone might have, that really sets the tone for some exceptional sexy time.

HeadphoneGirlOne of my true passions, aside from sex itself, is music. It’s not something that comes up very often as a topic of conversation when I take calls on NiteFlirt, and I’m certain there’s a large difference between the type of music that I listen to versus that of many of my “gentlemen callers” who, for the most part, are much older than I am. Aside from just simply being a huge music fan of various genres, I truly believe that music is one of the sexiest forms of entertainment on the planet. Yes, images whether they are pieces of art, erotic movies, or glossy high fashion pictures in magazines, can all be aphrodisiacs. However, what we hear can be just as sensual, hot, and intoxicating as what we are seeing when our partner is in front of us. I’ve never felt anything but absolutely, crazy sexy when on the dance floor moving my body in sequence with a song that has my hips swaying from side to side and my hands slowly and sensually running down my body as I get lost in the euphoria of that contagious vibe going around the club. I’ve had my body pressed against strangers, grinding against me, eyes making contact, and hands all over me as the music creates an escape for us all, and I’ve even had some of the best fucking of my life to pumping sounds coming from a party playlist and some of the most intimate love making to an artist or song that just continuously gets me wet between my legs.

SexyMusicCoupleSo, in a little bit of a departure from my usual blog musings, I am inspired to share some of my favorite songs to add to any “Sex Playlist” to get you in the mood. Whether it’s during a fuck-session, while you’re sneaking away to stroke during some private “you” time, or to get you pumped up before/during/after giving ME, your favorite little flirty girl a call on NiteFlirt, I hope that you take my advice and seek out some of my favorite sexy songs that get me going every time.

Ride by Ciara feat. Ludacris

GirlOnTopYou kinda can’t go wrong with a slow tempo R&B song about how good a sexy girl is gonna ride it, right? This is the type of song that empowers a woman to take control over her man and have the absolute confidence in knowing “he loves the way I ride it.” Being on top is my absolute favorite position (among a long list of favorite positions hehe), so this song definitely makes it onto my playlist for when I’m feeling frisky and rowdy and needing to take a guy just how I want to.

Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry

As you’ll tell by this list, I’m a much bigger fan of R&B, Pop, and Hip Hop than I am of rock music. However, this particular song is not only on most of my workout and running playlists, it’s the song I fantasize about giving a very special guy an insanely hot striptease and lap dance to. Of course, that would lead up to him throwing me down and losing complete control, letting absolutely go of any inhibitions while fucking hard, rough, and dirty.CrazyBitch

Kiss It Better by Rihanna

Rihanna is my everything when it comes to music worship, and it’s tough to narrow down her sexy songs, so she’s on this list twice. This song is off of her newest album and quickly has risen to one of KissItBettermy favorite songs of hers. On a literal level this song is about a complicated relationship that seems to be falling apart, and needing to work toward piecing it back together. However, I cannot listen to “Kiss It Better” without needing to make out with someone, have his hands all over my body, and completely have him bury his head between my legs for hours. To me the double meaning of “kiss it better” has more to it than putting a bandaid on a torn relationship. The entire vibe of this song is seeping with sexual energy, which is obviously a testament to Rihanna herself who oozes sex appeal in everything she does. As many of my callers can attest, when you’re addicted to that one person, nothing is gonna do it for you other than them, and as Rihanna says in this song, “no one else gonna get it like that, you here to take me back, who cares when it feels like crack?”

The Hills by The Weeknd

The only other artist that is on here twice, TheWeekndThe Weeknd’s 2015 album is a raunchy sex album in itself. This song gets sexier the more you listen to it, and you realize that it’s kind of an anthem for a player who is after nothing more than pussy and makes no apologies for it. In turn, it highlights that the girls he fucks only really want him for sex, too. I love the honest portrayal of knowingly putting the priority of getting off far above that of making personal connections or relationships, because it’s true to how life sometimes is. Lyrics like “I only call you when it’s half past five, the only time I’d ever call you mine” and “I just fucked two bitches before I saw you, you’re gonna have to do it at my tempo …. I’m just tryin’ to live life for the moment and all these motherfuckers want a real love.” Sometimes we just want to fuck for the sake of fucking, and this song’s lyrics and beat invite listeners to join in on accepting ourselves for the sexual, horny, and fucked up creatures that we all have the tendency to be.

Darling Nikki by Prince

Looking online just about every search of “sex songs” or “playlists to fuck to” will turn up at least one song by Prince. This particular song speaks to me because it’s very much about fantasy, beginning with an image of “Nikki” that he uses to masturbate to, escalating in either a real sexual encounter or his fantasies of a sexual encounter, all the result of the intoxication he has felt because of this woman’s power over his body Stereoand mind. I feel like this song is somewhat championing sex workers, whether intentionally or not in how “Darling Nikki” is there whenever he needs to fuck or jerk off, she will be there to meet his needs as her note states, “call me up whenever you want to grind.” She can be there physically, but it’s the mental image of her, her apparent superiority to other women, and her mere existence which has driven this man to madness and opened his eyes to sexually empowered women running the show. The music itself is erotic, hypnotizing, and perfect to dance and have some dirty fuck sessions to.

Partition by BeyoncePartition

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her man “Lemonade,” this particular song will get me in the mood 100% of the time. All about a girl getting ready to hit the club but her man just taking her before she’s even able to get out the door to meet her girlfriends. The beat is erotic and worthy to ride a man’s cock to, and the pace of the song builds throughout, slowing down again into the perfect hip grinding and climactic  rhythms. Even if you think you don’t like Beyonce, I dare you not to get hard listening to this song.

Good for You by Selena Gomez

I could easily make a top 10 list of sultry and sexy SelGoodForYouena Gomez songs, so narrowing down to just one wasn’t easy. Honorable mention goes to the obvious “Hands to Myself,” the sweaty club rendition of “Slow Down,” or the dripping with sex, “Come and Get It.” I’m sure not a whole lot of grown men, like those of you reading this, think of her music as anything more than radio-friendly hits, but Selena has solidified her place in the music industry as one of the most outgoing, sexually expressive, and stimulating artists. Her songs are dripping with seduction, most notably “Good for You.” Every time I hear this song, I just want to roll around in my bed and slip my hands between my legs, fantasizing about whoever I’m crushing on at the moment and all the ways I can look and be good for him in bed as “I just wanna show you how proud I am to be yours and leave this dress a mess on the floor.” Much like Selena Gomez in this song, I can absolutely make you trust me that I’ll take you there, and that I’ll give it to you so hard during this song that you’ll never want to leave.

Motivation by Kelly Rowland feat. Lil WayneSexyDancing

I’m very confident that none of you would need that extra push of motivation if you were having sex with me, but there’s something so sensual and stunning about this descriptive song of encouragement by Kelly Rowland to the guy who’s giving it to her good. From telling him when to go faster, when to slow down, when to keep hitting that right spot, when to switch positions, and more, she reminds her man that “baby I’m gonna be your motivation” and it’s so fucking hot. Anyone on the edge of complete ecstasy would find themselves following along to Kelly’s song with their partner as the music, lyrics, and soulfulness within the song enhances your sexy-time together.

 

Earned it by The Weeknd

RomanticKissWhat kind of girl would I be if I didn’t put aside the fucking “bitches” and “hoes” songs for one that’s a true romantic, love-making ballad. Nothing makes a girl more ready and willing to spread her legs than being told she’s beautiful, perfect, and worth every single thing in the world. I mean, compliments even trump money and gifts when it comes to getting me all tingly and ready to go. Lyrics like “I’m gonna care for you, cause girl you’re perfect, you’re always worth it, and you deserve it, the way you work it, cause girl you’ve earned it” let’s The Weeknd’s muse become fairly confident that she’s about to have some fucking incredible orgasms, cause her man is all about pleasing her. This song has been solidified as a sexy tune thanks to being included on the “50 Shades of Grey” movie soundtrack; however, it’s truly a credit to The Weeknd’s ability to use the smoothness of his voice and seduction of his music to get any man or woman ready to go a few rounds. “Earned It” is a sure thing for any playlist that’s the backdrop of some sexual action or the perfect tool for any man trying to get a girl into bed.

Rude Boy by Rihanna

RiRi.jpgBack to my favorite bad girl, RiRi, this is one of the hottest songs on the planet to me. It’s a big club and dance hit, making it ideal to move your body to and my friends and I have it on just about every single playlist for our life. However, it’s truly the perfect song to fuck to. It’s all about both partners completely taking what they want from one another in the moment and not letting anything hold them back. She tells her “Rude Boy” that “tonight I’m gonna let you be the captain, I’m gonna let you do your thing” and that she’s gonna “give it to you harder and gonna turn your body out.” The acoustics of vocals and a sexy, repetitive chorus and beat are perfect for any music compilation to accompany a long night together of ongoing fucking and the exact kind of song that makes me extremely eager to hop on top and give my man the ride of his life.

Those are my top ten songs that make a sex playlist, and I hope you follow the links to the videos and check them out as you picture you and I together. I would love to not only hear some of your thoughts about MY list, but curious about what songs would make YOUR fuck-time playlist as well. Either tweet me some suggestions @FlirtRyderDoll or message or call me on NiteFlirt with your own sexy song titles or artists who put you in the mood!

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Girl-on-Girl

There’s just something about girl-on-girl action that makes men lose their fucking minds.

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I agree that the image of two sexy girl’s pretty, soft lips locked in a kiss, twirling their cute little tongues around one another is fucking beautiful. When it comes to guys, it is often ranked as one of their ultimate turn-ons.

So many of my phone sex callers ask me questions about my Sexy Girls in Whiteattraction to women; these are the questions I receive most frequently:

“Are you bi-sexual?” 

“Do you ever hook up with girls?”

“Have you ever seen your girlfriends naked?” 

“Can you tell me about the first time you ever kissed a girl?”

“If you could have sex with any actress, who would it be?” 

Let me start by saying that no, I do not consider myself bi-sexual. I truly and whole heartedly believe that women are the most beautiful and exotic creatures on Earth, and I would rather see a woman naked over that of a man, if I’m speaking aesthetically. However, in terms of sexual attraction and who I want to get off and get me off, I’m 100% into guys.

Having said that, I also must confess though, that I have had very strong physical attractions to women.  This might confuse a lot of people who want to label me as “bi.” My feeling is that a sexy female body is a turn on, no question about it. However, just because it’s a visual stimulation for me doesn’t mean I have an overwhelming desire to physically act on that. I mean, if a guy I’m attracted to is in front of me with a hard-on, it’s a natural instinct to want to get on my knees and suck him off or to climb on top of him and ride his cock till we both explode. That animalistic need has to be fed and the only way I can feel satisfied is to have it then and there. When I see a woman, however, it’s a different feeling. If a girl I found to be the ultimate perfection of the female figure was in front of me, legs spread wide open and wet as can be, I wouldn’t have that same instinct to bury my face between her legs and taste her. It’s not that overwhelming craving that I would feel with a man; instead, it’s an appreciation, an admiration, and will likely be a turn on that makes me wet. That doesn’t mean I’m going to dive in and eat the girl out, though.
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As a young woman I’ve experienced first-hand over and over again the overwhelming intrigue shown by guys if you even tease them a little bit about doing something sexual with another girl. I know there’s a joke among generations older than mine about women going through a “phase” in college where they make out with and hook up with their girlfriends. For my generation of millennials, it’s much less a “phase” and far more something you learn very quickly throughout middle school and high school as a tactic to get the attention of boys. Thesexy socks - girl-on-girlre are some things us young girls do with our friends in private when we’re growing up that boys never get to see. However, we tend to exaggerate some of our intimate practices and go public with our displays of female affection as soon as a cute boy at a party suggests it would be hot to see two girls kiss. Whether we’re into our friends or not, if we’re a couple drinks deep, everyone is having fun, and we’re living on the high of being the center of attention, kissing our friends is a really fucking easy way to turn heads.

I can remember as far back as late elementary school at sleepovers with friends. Late at night, we’d all talk about what it will be like to kiss a boy. I mean, some of us already had what we considered a “first kiss.” Maybe a peck stolen on the playground or a kid in the neighborhood who would run around and tease us, only to one day plant one on us. Yet, we all, even at that young age, knew that a REAL first kiss was around the corner, so in our adorable little pajamas, in our sleeping bags, we would have little “practice sessions.” We’d put our hands into fists, and kiss the fleshy part of our skin, critiquing one another on technique, as though any of us at that time had any idea what we were talking about. A couple of times some of the braver girls might dare one of us to kiss each other; this would usually end up being a little charade where one would pretend to be the “boy” and the other would be the “girl about to be kissed.” It usually resulted in laughing, teasing each other about our little schoolgirl crushes, and going to sleep still really confused and anxious about whether or not boys would want to kiss us and if we’d be any good at it. Little did we know about the storm of attention we would be getting within a few short years, and that those little “practice” sessions could be reenacted in our teen years with a level of comfort and ease with one another that is unique to girls who share moments like these with their friends.

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So, to answer some more of my FAQ’s, I wouldn’t label what I’ve done throughout the last few years as “hooking up” with girls. Have I seen many of my girlfriends naked? Yes. Have I kissed or made out with a few of them? Uh huh. Have I been in the same room with any of my girlfriends when they were naked and getting fucked? Ummm… yes, actually I have! haha. Was I an active participant in that particular activity? Nope! I had my own situation going on in a separate bed, with a separate guy. But, like I said earlier, there is something very visually stimulating about the female body, even when it’s one of your hot friends with whom you basically grew up as sisters.  While I have kissed my best friend (and other friends) in party moments to tease boys, while we regularly get dressed and undressed in front of one another without hesitation, and while I have even seen her in the aforementioned position of getting it on (and she can say the same about me), I still can without any hesitation whatsoever tell you that I have ZERO interest in going down on her, spreading her apart, or putting anything inside her.

I find the fascination and interest a lot of men have with girls making out and lesbian porn to be curious. I always wonder what, beyond the physical attraction, makes this such a popular porn niche when there are alternative options of seeing hot girls go crazy on some guy’s cock. I personally really like watching porn from time to time. I started watching it online at a relatively young age and learned so much about sex from dirty videos. In fact, even as a straight girl, I almost always kisseslook for a super hot woman in a porn clip before I even care about the content or her “co-star.” I love one-on-one male/female fucking, I like a little variety from time to time, so 3-some videos are super hot and depending on my mood or what catches my eye I can go for  either 2 guys/1 girl or 2 girls/1 guy. So, as you can see, I obviously GET what’s such a turn on about women…. I GET that it’s hot to watch girls do nasty sexual things to each other in a 3-some setting while some guy is fucking them, switching back and forth between the two.

I’m really interested to know, however, what guys tend to love about full out lesbian girl-on-girl fingering, fucking, and pussy eating? Is it the fact that you don’t see another guy in the equation, therefore you can imagine yourself to have them all to yourself? Is it the voyeuristic nature of catching girls being naughty, doing something they wouldn’t want you to see them doing? It is just a simple as jerk-off material where you don’t have to worry about seeing some guys dick and you can focus solely on the female body?

I’d love to hear any thoughts or insight into what you (if this is your thing, that is) find particularly sexy about 2 (or more) women going crazy on one another. Personally, I’ve never even watched a lesbian porn video, so if there’s a particular one that is your favorite that you think could convince even the most cock-hungry girl to give up the dick for a minute and play with myself while watching 2 girls fuck, send it my way! Maybe you’ll open my eyes to something new or maybe I’ll just be extra ravenous for your hard, thick dick, ready for  you to give me a call and take me like only a fucking man can.

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5-Star Girl

As much as I am a laid back person, there are some things that can get me really worked up from time to time. I don’t like when I work really hard at something, and then feel like the excessive amount of time, effort, or thoughtfulness isn’t appreciated or worse, is undermined in some way. 

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This can obviously come into play when dealing with school, relationships, and work. I’m sure everyone reading this has moments at their jobs when they have felt like they were really kicking ass, but it either went unnoticed or was criticized in a way that came as a surprise. I’m certain it happens to everyone; I get that. However, my current  “job” of choice is through NiteFlirt. My responsibilities? Give guys who call, message, or purchase my “goodies” the time of their fucking life! The goal of my duties? To make a guy cum so fucking hard he’ll be 100% convinced that choosing me among the thousands of girls was worth it, leaving him inspired to come back for more. 

lipsEvery single call I answer on NiteFlirt I approach the same way – I am myself, I am genuine, and I will fucking rock it. The reality is that I won’t have chemistry with every caller or maybe some guys will have an expectation of me being a different type of person or into a fetish or niche area that isn’t quite my thing. My objective is to meet you (the guy spending his hard earned cash) wherever you are and to best adapt myself to your needs. Any person who calls one of my listings on NiteFlirt will always be presented with the REAL DEAL when talking to me. They can choose to talk to the real me (Hi, I’m Ryder! lol) or have me play a role for them (am I your neighbor? student? boss? mistress? etc.); that is their choice. However, each call (unless discussed and arranged prior) begins with the real Ryder. I’m enthusiastic, personable, and interesting. I don’t default to fake moans, unnecessary small-talk, or laziness. I never lie about who I am, where I live and go to school, what my personality is like or what my interests and personal fetishes are. If someone were to randomly survey any 10 of my regular callers and quiz them about me, you better believe they will all have the same answers (that is, if they’ve been paying attention). 

orgasm1While I am a very confident girl, I am not so arrogant that I expect to be the absolute perfect girl for every single guy out there looking for phone sex. I am realistic and know life (even “fantasy” life) doesn’t work that way. However, what I do believe is that when a guy calls me on NiteFlirt, he rang my particular listing for a reason. This means there’s something about who I am that struck him enough to want to call me and give me a fair shot to be the “chosen one” he shoots his load for on any given night (gold star for you if you can sense my sarcasm here. hehe).  As a reward for my “performance,” guys are given the option to leave feedback on our call. My expectation is that I am judged fairly for my time, my enthusiasm, and my ability to engage you. Because I CARE deeply that every single person who calls me gets rock hard and cums so fucking good that they won’t be able to get me out of their head for a long time, I fucking bring it when I’m on the phone! I am NEVER lazy. I WORK FOR IT. I will say and do the dirty shit a guy wants to hear and for the guys who are shy, introverted, or unresponsive, I’ll explore all fucking avenues of hooking him and getting him to join “Team Ryder!”  

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Here’s a sample of the type of feedback I usually get. 5 STARS all over….

Okay, so you are real and you care. So what?” You’re probably thinking… I bring all of this up because I received 1-star feedback tonight from a 3-minute phone call. Within 5 minutes of his hanging up, I was left a 1-star feedback review about how I’m not “real.” Nowhere within this call did this person attempt in any way to interact with the girl he called (me!). This is totally ok; he has no obligation to me to get to know me in any way. No one who calls me should ever feel they should engage in torturous small talk when all they actually want to do is just stroke it, cum, and move on! However, having my “realness” questioned publicly on my listing really irks me. In no way do I put on a “fake” voice or persona and in no way did I at any point attempt to mislead or “trick” this person or anyone else for that matter. 

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….. let’s not forget about feedback for my sultry & hot “goodies” ….

A “flirt’s” feedback can make or break her business and one of the kisses of death is having your “reality” questioned. It’s true that there are girls out there who create characters and act them out. There’s other girls who are themselves with some edits to protect anonymity. There’s other girls who are completely genuine and real. There are girls who lie and say their getting off when they’re not; there are girls who are also really fucking horny and touching themselves right along with you. Just as guys get infatuated with flirts, girls can get infatuated with callers, making a connection as real as can be. None of these are the “right” or “wrong” approach, but when you are one of the real ones, it’s a tough pill to swallow to be labeled as a phony. There are guys who leave completely honest feedback (good or bad) based on a Flirt’s ability to read his call and bring it where he wanted it to go, and then there are complete dickheads who make asinine statements that have no reflection on what really happened over the phone. 

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…. and feedback from even more amazing phone sex calls….

I know that I am not suited to a guy looking for a cougar, or a trailer-trash slut, or a hard-core domme. However, any man who picks up the phone and dials me on NiteFlirt should know that in the world of barely-legal teens who have a brain, personality, and appetite for fucking, I am a home run, 5-star girl! There is no question in my mind that I am worth your time and your money and so much more. I know that a 1-star review among a sea of 5-star, glowing, complementary ratings is eventually going to be diminished to nothing. 

5ed12e924577b807f7a0298937ce52f8I definitely am not going to be losing any sleep over this, and I know my followers and loyal guys never question who I am. It’s the first time callers though, who might still be toying with the idea of picking up the phone and calling who should be reassured not to be dissuaded by random, 1-star feedback in ANY flirt’s profile listings. If she’s consistently a 5-star girl judge her on the reputation she holds with the majority, and if you’ve had your own good, bad, or so-so experiences, make sure you leave us girls meaningful feedback so we know exactly how to give you the best fucking phone sex experience of your life the next time you call! 

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…. this about sums up a call with RyderDoll on NiteFlirt!

Are You “Taboo?”

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I have a confession to make…. before I got involved in the “adult” industry, I would have sworn up and down that I knew a fucking lot about sex, sexual desires, and so-called “fetishes.” I’ve always been a very sexually curious girl; I became sexually active around age 13, started watching porn even earlier, and started touching myself even earlier than that!!! So, even though I’m just 19-years-old now, I would definitely have argued that even if I hadn’t personally done something myself, I had probably at least been exposed to the idea of it in some way, shape, or form.

 

Dancers perform during fetish fashion event in TokyoWell, fast forward to me entering the world of phone sex and I was smacked in the face with ideas and concepts I wouldn’t have ever dreamed up in my head. Shocking to me, the things that I, at the time, thought might be “taboo” were in fact considered to be “vanilla” in this new circle I was becoming immersed in. As call after call began pouring in, I quickly realized that there’s a whole big world out there of crazy shit happening I had no idea about, but that I would become increasingly fascinated with.

Before I get in too deep, for ME on a personal level, by age 18 (the age I started phone sex) I had had REAL LIFE sex with 5 different guys: the boy I lost my virginity to, my high-school boyfriend aka “first love,” the married, older man otherwise known as my “secret affair,” the 30-something boyfriend who I still can’t believe my parents let me leave the house with, and the really cute boy I sometimes hooked up with during summers away at my family’s annual vacation spot. By today’s teen standards I fell somewhere completely centered to the extremes of “prude” versus “slore” (slut+whore) and was perfectly comfortable with that placement.

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In addition to number of partners, I’d not done anything out of the ordinary sexually. Most girls I knew were having sex by age 15 and a majority were doing anal by the time we graduated high school, so nothing too “taboo” happening over here other than that little married man mishap. Oops. 😉

With all of that said… my first few calls as a “PSO” were a little shocking and ranged from sexy, confusing, disturbing, and even more fucking confusing. Any given night I could go from hearing the sexiest fucking thing that made me so wet, resulting in having to play with myself to hearing the most deplorable thing I could ever imagine and wondering if I legit should be making a phone call to the police! Because of this, I really started delving deeper into trying to understand various fetishes, and before long I convinced myself that most men belonged in one of 2 categories: guys who want to be your “daddy” and guys who want to be forced to suck cock. Sometimes they start as one and very abruptly can become the other, and oftentimes I would find that there were additional “fetishes” that were the result of this basic categorization, but overall… I was quickly introduced to those two types of people and all their deepest, darkest, and most deviant of fantasies.

taboofetish5For instance – in my experience the “daddy” type usually love taboo role play involving “incest,” whether it’s a daughter type, step-daughter, son’s girlfriend, or anything closely related (no pun intended). There’s the “Sugar Daddy” who want to buy you things or put you through school or pay your bills and treat you like a little China doll and call you names like “princess” in exchange for some amazing arm candy they wouldn’t likely score without this financial arrangement. Other “daddies” engage in voyeurism and public masturbation, that can result in stalking, and a number of different forced sexual scenarios that, if happening in real life, would be terrifying, but when playing out with a few of these men while I’m safely protected by distance, can be admittedly hot (go on…. I dare you to judge me, then think about the kind of fucked up shit you are into! Hehe.).

The guys who love to suck dick though, are endlessly eye opening to me! From self proclaimed “sissies” to guys looking to be humiliated and dominated, these men really introduced me to the world of men who were just begging to be submissive; forcing me to evaluate any man who approached me in real life and secretly ask myself, “does this guy really like me or would he rather be sucking cock?” Yes, this could definitely fuck with a girl over time. Particularly a girl like me who, even though my ego wanted to believe I was “experienced,” was actually pretty sheltered in the world of sexual exploration of fetishes, particularly the “taboo” kind. I mean, there is absolutely nothing shocking about guys wanting to suck dick; I’ve had my fair share of gay friends, but when it’s a guy on his knees begging his “mistress” (wait, that’s me??? Lol) to allow him to suck my hypothetical boyfriend’s dick before his wife gets home with the kids…. Well, welcome to the secret deviant world of living out your taboo desires over the phone!

TabooFetish2One of my most memorable calls early on was with a guy only a few years older than me – maybe 22 or 23 – who wanted me to pretend I was his girlfriend who recently broke up with him. Me being ME, initially did the typical girly “awwwwwww!” offering my condolences, only to quickly realize that this scenario did not call for sympathy, but instead he wanted me to humiliate him. I was to tell him all the reasons I (playing his gf) am breaking up with him and how pathetic he is. All of this would happen as he “polished his gun.” I’d like to convince myself that this was some kind of euphemism for stroking his cock, but I don’t think so. After our call “finished” so to speak, he told me not to hang up and he proceeded to put me on hold. I then listened to him interacting like a completely normal human being with another person in his home. By the time I hung up the phone I was fairly certain he wasn’t going to murder anyone that day, but …. I’d be crazy to say that it didn’t strike a chord with me in some way that made me truly fascinated by the way our minds work in connection to sexual deviance and desires.

Overtime I’ve learned there is FAR more to the sexual psyche than those previous categories I was so quick to stereotype. From guys who love to be teased and denied an orgasm altogether to the callers who literally want to be ignored or ridiculed as you go about whatever mundane task you happen to be doing at home. Then there’s the men who get off on forced intoxication. In other words, I will force you to take shot after shot after shot of liquor so you become so inebriated that you spend all your money on me. In the process of this, I ridicule him and find creative and unique ways of letting him know he’s less meaningful to me than the dirt on the bottom of my shoes. Oh, then there’s the guys who want to lick the dirt off the bottom of my shoes because, well…. That’s hot too, right? From stocking fetishes to spanking fetishes to the caller who would jerk off as I in painfully slow, intricate detail described to him what every single one of the teeth in my mouth looked like, I’ve come to find out over the course of the last year that just about anything you could conjure up in your mind…. there’s someone out there who will cum so fucking hard to that craziness!

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Learning about these fetishes and communicating about them, asking the callers questions so that I understand more, and playing out their fantasies for them is something I genuinely enjoy doing, even if the fetish itself is not necessarily my cup of tea. One of my favorite calls was a very long role play fantasy where the guy wanted to time-travel back in time so he could impregnate his mother with himself. I mean, who gets to piece together the outrageous details of such a scenario and get paid to do it, customer satisfaction practically guaranteed? I mean, if you cum…. I’ve done my job, right? 😉 A year into doing phone sex, it now takes a lot to shock me and I am surprisingly able to go through the motions with crazy fetishes and taboos I’ve never seen or heard. In fact, I fucking love when someone comes up with stories so unique that it literally makes me laugh out loud – not because I think the person is weird, but because I’m genuinely entertained by the level of whimsy, fantasy, creativity, and all around storytelling that some people can bring into their process of getting off.

For myself, I obviously like older men and I like the idea of being overpowered in the bedroom, tossed around and played with and feeling so desired that it comes close to the brink of feeling “used.” I love a good spanking every now and then, and I am very much into pushing the boundaries of what me and my guy are capable of getting away with in public, adding a little bit of exhibitionism to my fetish shelf that I didn’t quite know I had before. I’ve definitely gotten into the whole “fantasy role play” world and enjoy dressing up in sexy little outfits, heels, and playful attire that will suit whatever “role” is being explored. Yet, there are many areas that still leave a bit of a question mark in my mind that I’m just not completely sold on yet. Forced intoxication, financial domination, sissy training, and cuckolding, to name a few.

 

findomFinancial domination in particular is interesting to me and I’d love to know more, but quite frankly most of the FinDom guys on NiteFlirt are fakers who don’t come through. Even though they are begging to have their wallets raped, they still think they can tell the girl what to do and have their orders be delivered on demand. To me, a fetish isn’t fun if you’re not going to commit to it. That doesn’t mean you really have to empty your wallet for me if this is just a fantasy as opposed to a lifestyle, but it does mean you don’t get to boss me around like you’re in control, when what you’re asking for and calling me for is to control you. So even though I offer these services to my callers, I’ve yet to talk to the right guy who has really come through and sold the idea to me. If you’re reading this and think you’re that guy…. TRY ME. Give me a call and if you’re willing to commit, trust me…. I can and will fucking bring it.Stockings

So, I’d love to hear what kind of fantasies and fetishes you find intriguing, either because you’re aroused by it or just fucking intrigued. Do you consider yourself “vanilla” or “taboo” and why? Either comment here or send me a message through NiteFlirt so I can learn more about your kinks and your curiosities! Maybe you’re not even sure what your particular sexual fetishes are? Check out some of my audio goodies and explore some naughty and erotic adventures with me, even if it’s outside the niche that normally gets you off!            
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Fantasy, Reality, and Phone Sex

Before I started doing phone sex I honestly didn’t even know it was something that still existed as a business or as a sexual desire. I mean, I knew about phone sex and had even had it a couple times myself in my personal life (although I was generally more a fan of “sexting” lol), but I had NO IDEA there was a whole world of people out there who still simply picked up the phone to talk and get off with a stranger while talking through and playing out their fantasies.

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Having grown up in a generation who has Internet porn at our fingertips at any given time of day or night, I was truly shocked and had a lot of questions about phone sex when I started looking into the world of porn and the adult industry. I have found, over a relatively short period of time, that there are some blurred lines between the fantasy associated with phone sex and the reality of making a true connection with the person on the other end of the line.

Before I get into that, let me back track a little bit and answer one of the questions posed to me most commonly by callers:

“How did you get into phone sex?”

It was my senior year of high school last December 2014 immediately following my 18th birthday, and my boyfriend at the time (now Ex-boyfriend with a capital “EX”) made a joke about how I would make a ton of money if I werPSO BLOG 3e a “cam girl” on the Internet. This turned into several hours of both of us looking up various adult websites for girls who offer cam shows and seeing the kinds of things they do on video. We laughed, were intrigued, sometimes shocked, and often became mesmerized as we saw all the things various girls (some smoking HOTTTT and some … well, not exactly the types of women I would have imagined would draw the level of clientele they do) who are willing to do outrageous things by request on webcam for strangers. So, while at the time it began as a joke and a flirty/sexy/funny and completely non-serious idea between my boyfriend and I to entertain us one night, I then started noticing several ads about “phone sex operators” and my interest was piqued!

After reading several articles, visiting websites with information, and learning about the industry in general, I knew this was, far more than “camming,” a route I would be willing to go to put myself out there, meet and talk to new people, and make money while having some possible fun (or amusement if nothing else). When I first started taking calls I was floored by the different types of men, women, and fetishes out there! I had many calls that greatly and deeply disturbed me, I had calls that outright confused the fuck out of me, and I also had some calls that made me so wet I couldn’t help but slip my hand down my panties and join the stranger on the other end of the phone in whatever fantasy or roleplay we were acting out. In those early days I spent a lot of time getting off, because… wow… no one had ever talked to me like some of these guys were talking to me and I had no idea the effect that these fantasy situations were going to have on my body and my mind.

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Even though I’m young and haven’t been with a large number of sexual partners, I’ve always been exceptionally curious, creative, vocal, and adventurous in my personal sex life. However, the volume of calls, the amped up sexual energy constantly at my disposal, and the continued array of fantasies, desires, fetishes, and thirst for passion was reaching a level I had never personally experienced prior to this. I began telling my best friend about NiteFlirt and phone sex and the fact that I was making pretty good money, meeting some insanely sexy guys, and finding myself in a constant cycle of CRAVING phone sex! She obviously had so many questions, but the hardest one for her to grasp was this one:

“What if the guys you’re talking to are ugly or disgusting guys you would never in a million years talk to in real life?”

tumblr_n2wau9msiz1s562dio1_400I’d be lying if I claim to have never considered this before. Just like it’s normal for the guys calling us girls with NiteFlirt listings to question if we are REALLY the girl in the pictures, or the age we say we are, or anything even remotely resembling who we describe to you – this is something us girls think about as well. For example, every time a guy tells me he has a 10” cock you know what my response is? “You’re a fucking liar!” haha, that’s my response. Maybe 1 out of 10 guys has a dick that big, and maybe 1 out of 5 of the girls you’ve ever called is actually who she says she is, and maybe 1 out of 100 guys I’ve talked to is someone I would actually talk to if I met him at a party or be attracted to physically if I saw him in person, but what I decided from my own perspective is that I actually don’t care and it truly doesn’t matter to me!

The purpose of a fantasy is just that… it’s a FANTASY. Thetwo of us were acting out  roleplay and the picture I have in my mind doesn’t have to add up to who this guy really is because, well, I’m never going to know the difference anyway. The chances of me ever seeing this guy in real life are slim-to-none. Therefore, masqueradeto ME in the moment I’m talking to a particular caller, my imagination is in some sense the truth. What I’m hearing is thanks to him; what I’m envisioning is thanks to my own imagination. It’s the combination of real life interaction with the fantasy of my own interpretation of who he is that gets me off and vice versa. I can tell you a thousand times over that I’m really who I say I am and that I’m actually the girl in the pictures you’re looking at, but until the day you meet me face-to-face you can never truly know the extent of what is real or what isn’t, right? Does it matter? Does it inhibit your ability to cum so hard and become addicted to my voice and your idea of me in your mind? I don’t think it does. I think you would be pleasantly surprised if you DID meet me face-to-face, but the truth is… in those moments, what you IMAGINE is what matters; the image your mind paints is your truth and it’s fucking amazing no matter what “reality” might expose.

 

PSO BLOG 1Over time I’ve gotten regular loyal callers with whom I’ve established a good connection (hi there baby! Hehe) as well as callers who have made an impact on me even though we only ever spoke once (hopefully those sexy guys read this blog too!) Each of the most memorable calls have something in common: that blend of something that feels so real matched with something that encourages my imagination to create the perfect fantasy. 

For instance, I have had moments where the voice on the other end of the phone tells me he is looking into my eyes and it FEELS real; I see his eyes burning through me, or my skin feels his fingertips sliding up my inner thigh, finally making his way to my wetness. In these brief moments I FEEL like this man, who I’ve never seen or met, is slipping his fingers inside of me. I’ve had men tell me they are kissing me, tasting me, fucking me…. and I’ve had it feel REAL. I’ve gotten so lost in the moment that the line between fantasy and reality fades and, even if for small isolated moments together, there is a connection that cannot be explained to anyone else in the world who is not feeling the true intensity of what we are feeling right then and there.

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Those moments leading up to and right when we orgasm are so intimate, personal, and authentic. Each person’s true selves come through; I’ve heard men cry, moan, scream, beg, curse; I’ve witnessed pride, humiliation, angst, shame, genuine happiness and ecstasy in those moments. Let me be clear, though: allowing someone to transcend the barrier of the phone and connect to you in the most intimate of ways isn’t something handed out lightly to any random horny guy who calls me; no, it’s something that, just like real life chemistry, can only be done with the people to whom you are truly attracted and have an authentic and “real” connection.


While I was initially confused as to why guys nowadays would still call phone sex lines rather than watch girls on camClick for the web's best phone sex on Niteflirt.coms or just download porn and jerk off to that for far less cost, I am now completely sold on why phone sex is still around so many years after these other ways to get off became available. Phone sex is the only medium that allows each participant to make a personal connection while still activating and utilizing the deepest, often secret, and most sexual sides of one’s imagination. We say things we maybe have never said in “real” life and sometimes say we’d do things that are questionable as to whether or not we’d actually do them.

However, as two complete strangers are laying there, in different rooms, different homes, different zip codes, and sometimes different continents, yet are able to even for the smallest moment feel as though their “partner” is laying right there beside them… THAT is why phone sex is fucking amazing. THAT is why I’m hooked. THAT is why, when you hear me and you think, “wow! This girl is either an amazing actress or really just got off on the phone with me!” you can know that you are probably in that small percentage of guys who have seen into the real me and allowed me to share my naughtiest, most deviant, and sexiest sides of my fantasies with you in such an incredibly real way.

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And what if you haven’t experienced that level of amazing phone sex? Maybe you haven’t found the right girl yet! Maybe that level of intimacy isn’t what you need and you just need to hear a voice to stroke it to or feel less lonely for a few minutes each night. Whatever the reason is, phone sex is here to stay and I couldn’t be happier that I am part of this fucking wacky world of NiteFlirt where I can meet the most amazing guys who open up my eyes to new and exciting things every single day.

 
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Home & Horny for the Holidays

Wow, this week has been so incredibly busy for me and because I’m home for the holidays I haven’t had the chance to talk to so many of my regular callers on NiteFlirt! I honestly really miss several of my guys, and I know those of you reading this must be aching and hurting for your time with me.

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Since I’ve been home, I’ve spent an insane amount of time with family, friends, and especially some extra special alone time sleeping in my own bed! Nothing is better than coming home from college, where I normally am sleeping in a teeny-tiny, little twin-sized bed to my big cozy queen sized one here at home! However, the one pitfall is the lack of privacy I get when home. Oh, not to mention that I don’t have a sexy man with a big fat hard-on beside me!
 
I’m one of four kids, so my sisters are always trying to sneak into my room and catch a glimpse of what I’m doing or eavesdropping on my phone calls. My brother’s bedroom is right next door to mine, so I wonder if he can hear me when I’m talking on the phone, which (as many of you know) can get out of hand with how much I’m getting turned on, moaning loudly, or doing God-knows-what it might be that you’re making me do or that I’m instructing you to do at the time. Balancing my time on NiteFlirt with my time spent at home has been challenging, but not impossible. I’ll definitely be getting some much-needed phone time in this week!

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Since I don’t go back to school until January 11th, I’ll have plenty of time to play with all of my favorite boys. I’ve been extra wet lately thinking about all the guys who have been cumming to the audio recordings I posted over the last couple of weeks (if you haven’t downloaded them yet – you can find them here). I love nothing more than knowing that a guy thinks my voice is so fucking hot that it makes him blow his load while listening to my recordings and looking at my pictures. Since I’ve been forced to hold back this past week, I’m ready to explode and cum so hard and so good…. Many, many times!!! There are one or two people in particular I can’t get out of my head lately….. 😉 Give me a call, because it just might be you!

Leave a comment or send me a message to let me know you read this and that you’re thinking about making me cum as much as I’m thinking about the nasty things I’m gonna say and do to get you to cum for me! I’m feeling super kinky, extra naughty, and ultra sexy, so watch out when you get ahold of me …

 xoxo
~ Ryder ~
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