Girl on Girl Action

There’s just something about girl-on-girl action that makes men lose their fucking minds. I agree that the image of two sexy girl’s pretty, soft lips locked in a kiss, twirling their cute little tongues around one another is fucking beautiful. When it comes to guys, it is often ranked as one of their ultimate turn-ons. 

So many of my phone sex callers ask me questions about my attraction to women; these are the questions I receive most frequently:sexy fucking girl kiss

“Are you bi-sexual?”
“Do you ever hook up with girls?”
“Have you ever seen your girlfriends naked?”
“Can you tell me about the first time you ever kissed a girl?”
“If you could have sex with any actress, who would it be?”

Let me start by saying that no, I do not consider myself bi-sexual. I truly and whole heartedly believe that women are the most beautiful and exotic creatures on Earth, and I would rather see a woman naked over that of a man, if I’m speaking aesthetically. However, in terms of sexual attraction and who I want to get off and get me off, I’m 100% into guys.

Having said that, I also must confess though, that I have had very strong physical attractions to women.  This might confuse a lot of people who want to label me as “bi.” My feeling is that a sexy female body is a turn on, no question about it. However, just because it’s a visual stimulation for me doesn’t mean I have an overwhelming desire to physically act on that. I mean, if a guy I’m attracted to is in front of me with a hard-on, it’s a natural instinct to want to get on my knees and suck him off or to climb on top of him and ride his cock till we both explode. That animalistic need has to be fed and the only way I can feel satisfied is to have it then and there. When I see a woman, however, it’s a different feeling. If a girl I found to be the ultimate perfection of the female figure was in front of me, legs spread wide open and wet as can be, I wouldn’t have that same instinct to bury my face between her legs and taste her. It’s not that overwhelming craving that I would feel with a man; instead, it’s an appreciation, an admiration, and will likely be a turn on that makes me wet. That doesn’t mean I’m going to dive in and eat the girl out, though.tumblr_mn5ti6pyzf1qfw572o1_500

As a young woman I’ve experienced first-hand over and over again the overwhelming intrigue shown by guys if you even tease them a little bit about doing something sexual with another girl. I know there’s a joke among generations older than mine about women going through a “phase” in college where they make out with and hook up with their girlfriends. For my generation of millennials, it’s much less a “phase” and far more something you learn very quickly throughout middle school and high school as a tactic to get the attention of boys.There are some things us young girls do with our friends in private when we’re growing up that boys never get to see. However, we tend to exaggerate some of our intimate practices and go public with our displays of female affection as soon as a cute boy at a party suggests it would be hot to see two girls kiss. Whether we’re into our friends or not, if we’re a couple drinks deep, everyone is having fun, and we’re living on the high of being the center of attention, kissing our friends is a really fucking easy way to turn heads.

I can remember as far back as late elementary school at sleepovers with friends. Late at night, we’d all talk about what it will be like to kiss a boy. I mean, some of us already had what we considered a “first kiss.” Maybe a peck stolen on the playground or a kid in the neighborhood who would run around and tease us, only to one day plant one on us. Yet, we all, even at that young age, knew that a REAL first kiss was around the corner, so in our adorable little pajamas, in our sleeping bags, we would hsexy socks - girl-on-girlave little “practice sessions.” We’d put our hands into fists, and kiss the fleshy part of our skin, critiquing one another on technique, as though any of us at that time had any idea what we were talking about.A couple of times some of the braver girls might dare one of us to kiss each other;this would usually end up being a little charade where one would pretend to be the “boy” and the other would be the “girl about to be kissed.” It usually resulted in laughing, teasing each other about our little schoolgirl crushes, and going to sleep still really confused and anxious about whether or not boys would want to kiss us and if we’d be any good at it. Little did we know about the storm of attention we would be getting within a few short years, and that those little “practice” sessions could be reenacted in our teen years with a level of comfort and ease with one another that is unique to girls who share moments like these with their friends.

So, to answer some more of my FAQ’s, I wouldn’t label what I’ve done throughout the last few years as “hooking up” with girls. Have I seen many of my girlfriends naked? Yes. Have I kissed or made out with a few of them? Uh huh. Have I been in the same room with any of my girlfriends when they were naked and getting fucked? Ummm… yes, actually I have! haha. Was I an active participant in that particular activity? Nope! I had my own situation going on in a separate bed, with a separate guy. But, like I said earlier, there is something very visually stimulating about the female body, even when it’s one of your hot friends with whom you basically grew up as sisters.  While I have kissed my best friend (and other friends) in party moments to tease boys, while we regularly get dressed and undressed in front of one another without hesitation, and while I have even seen her in the aforementioned position of getting it on (and she can say the same about me), I still can without any hesitation whatsoever tell you that I have ZERO interest in going down on her, spreading her apart, or putting anything inside her.

I find the fascination and interest a lot of men have with girls making out and lesbian porn to becurious. I always wonder what, beyond the physical attraction, makes this such a popular porn niche when there are alternative options of seeing hot girls go crazy on some guy’s cock. I personally reallylike watching porn from time to time. I started watching it online at a relatively young age and learned kissesso much about sex from dirty videos. In fact, even as a straight girl, I almost always look for a super hot woman in a porn clip before I even care about the content or her “co-star.” I love one-on-one male/female fucking, I like a little variety from time to time, so 3-some videos are super hot and depending on my mood or what catches my eye I can go for  either 2 guys/1 girl or 2 girls/1 guy. So, as you can see, I obviously GET what’s such a turn on about women…. I GET that it’s hot to watch girls do nasty sexual things to each other in a 3-some setting while some guy is fucking them, switching back and forth between the two.

I’m really interested to know, however, what guys tend to love about full out lesbian girl-on-girl fingering, fucking, and pussy eating? Is it the fact that you don’t see another guy in the equation, therefore you can imagine yourself to have them all to yourself? Is it the voyeuristic nature of catching girls being naughty, doing something they wouldn’t want you to see them doing? It is just a simple as jerk-off material where you don’t have to worry about seeing some guys dick and you can focus solely on the female body?

I’d love to hear any thoughts or insight into what you (if this is your thing, that is) find particularly sexy about 2 (or more) women going crazy on one another. Personally, I’ve never even watched a lesbian porn video, so if there’s a particular one that is your favorite that you think could convince even the most cock-hungry girl to give up the dick for a minute and play with myself while watching 2 girls fuck, send it my way! Maybe you’ll open my eyes to something new or maybe I’ll just be extra ravenous for your hard, thick dick, ready for  you to give me a call and take me like only a fucking man can.

bikehotties

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Girl-on-Girl

There’s just something about girl-on-girl action that makes men lose their fucking minds.

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I agree that the image of two sexy girl’s pretty, soft lips locked in a kiss, twirling their cute little tongues around one another is fucking beautiful. When it comes to guys, it is often ranked as one of their ultimate turn-ons.

So many of my phone sex callers ask me questions about my Sexy Girls in Whiteattraction to women; these are the questions I receive most frequently:

“Are you bi-sexual?” 

“Do you ever hook up with girls?”

“Have you ever seen your girlfriends naked?” 

“Can you tell me about the first time you ever kissed a girl?”

“If you could have sex with any actress, who would it be?” 

Let me start by saying that no, I do not consider myself bi-sexual. I truly and whole heartedly believe that women are the most beautiful and exotic creatures on Earth, and I would rather see a woman naked over that of a man, if I’m speaking aesthetically. However, in terms of sexual attraction and who I want to get off and get me off, I’m 100% into guys.

Having said that, I also must confess though, that I have had very strong physical attractions to women.  This might confuse a lot of people who want to label me as “bi.” My feeling is that a sexy female body is a turn on, no question about it. However, just because it’s a visual stimulation for me doesn’t mean I have an overwhelming desire to physically act on that. I mean, if a guy I’m attracted to is in front of me with a hard-on, it’s a natural instinct to want to get on my knees and suck him off or to climb on top of him and ride his cock till we both explode. That animalistic need has to be fed and the only way I can feel satisfied is to have it then and there. When I see a woman, however, it’s a different feeling. If a girl I found to be the ultimate perfection of the female figure was in front of me, legs spread wide open and wet as can be, I wouldn’t have that same instinct to bury my face between her legs and taste her. It’s not that overwhelming craving that I would feel with a man; instead, it’s an appreciation, an admiration, and will likely be a turn on that makes me wet. That doesn’t mean I’m going to dive in and eat the girl out, though.
tumblr_mn5ti6pyzf1qfw572o1_500

As a young woman I’ve experienced first-hand over and over again the overwhelming intrigue shown by guys if you even tease them a little bit about doing something sexual with another girl. I know there’s a joke among generations older than mine about women going through a “phase” in college where they make out with and hook up with their girlfriends. For my generation of millennials, it’s much less a “phase” and far more something you learn very quickly throughout middle school and high school as a tactic to get the attention of boys. Thesexy socks - girl-on-girlre are some things us young girls do with our friends in private when we’re growing up that boys never get to see. However, we tend to exaggerate some of our intimate practices and go public with our displays of female affection as soon as a cute boy at a party suggests it would be hot to see two girls kiss. Whether we’re into our friends or not, if we’re a couple drinks deep, everyone is having fun, and we’re living on the high of being the center of attention, kissing our friends is a really fucking easy way to turn heads.

I can remember as far back as late elementary school at sleepovers with friends. Late at night, we’d all talk about what it will be like to kiss a boy. I mean, some of us already had what we considered a “first kiss.” Maybe a peck stolen on the playground or a kid in the neighborhood who would run around and tease us, only to one day plant one on us. Yet, we all, even at that young age, knew that a REAL first kiss was around the corner, so in our adorable little pajamas, in our sleeping bags, we would have little “practice sessions.” We’d put our hands into fists, and kiss the fleshy part of our skin, critiquing one another on technique, as though any of us at that time had any idea what we were talking about. A couple of times some of the braver girls might dare one of us to kiss each other; this would usually end up being a little charade where one would pretend to be the “boy” and the other would be the “girl about to be kissed.” It usually resulted in laughing, teasing each other about our little schoolgirl crushes, and going to sleep still really confused and anxious about whether or not boys would want to kiss us and if we’d be any good at it. Little did we know about the storm of attention we would be getting within a few short years, and that those little “practice” sessions could be reenacted in our teen years with a level of comfort and ease with one another that is unique to girls who share moments like these with their friends.

girl-on-girl ass

So, to answer some more of my FAQ’s, I wouldn’t label what I’ve done throughout the last few years as “hooking up” with girls. Have I seen many of my girlfriends naked? Yes. Have I kissed or made out with a few of them? Uh huh. Have I been in the same room with any of my girlfriends when they were naked and getting fucked? Ummm… yes, actually I have! haha. Was I an active participant in that particular activity? Nope! I had my own situation going on in a separate bed, with a separate guy. But, like I said earlier, there is something very visually stimulating about the female body, even when it’s one of your hot friends with whom you basically grew up as sisters.  While I have kissed my best friend (and other friends) in party moments to tease boys, while we regularly get dressed and undressed in front of one another without hesitation, and while I have even seen her in the aforementioned position of getting it on (and she can say the same about me), I still can without any hesitation whatsoever tell you that I have ZERO interest in going down on her, spreading her apart, or putting anything inside her.

I find the fascination and interest a lot of men have with girls making out and lesbian porn to be curious. I always wonder what, beyond the physical attraction, makes this such a popular porn niche when there are alternative options of seeing hot girls go crazy on some guy’s cock. I personally really like watching porn from time to time. I started watching it online at a relatively young age and learned so much about sex from dirty videos. In fact, even as a straight girl, I almost always kisseslook for a super hot woman in a porn clip before I even care about the content or her “co-star.” I love one-on-one male/female fucking, I like a little variety from time to time, so 3-some videos are super hot and depending on my mood or what catches my eye I can go for  either 2 guys/1 girl or 2 girls/1 guy. So, as you can see, I obviously GET what’s such a turn on about women…. I GET that it’s hot to watch girls do nasty sexual things to each other in a 3-some setting while some guy is fucking them, switching back and forth between the two.

I’m really interested to know, however, what guys tend to love about full out lesbian girl-on-girl fingering, fucking, and pussy eating? Is it the fact that you don’t see another guy in the equation, therefore you can imagine yourself to have them all to yourself? Is it the voyeuristic nature of catching girls being naughty, doing something they wouldn’t want you to see them doing? It is just a simple as jerk-off material where you don’t have to worry about seeing some guys dick and you can focus solely on the female body?

I’d love to hear any thoughts or insight into what you (if this is your thing, that is) find particularly sexy about 2 (or more) women going crazy on one another. Personally, I’ve never even watched a lesbian porn video, so if there’s a particular one that is your favorite that you think could convince even the most cock-hungry girl to give up the dick for a minute and play with myself while watching 2 girls fuck, send it my way! Maybe you’ll open my eyes to something new or maybe I’ll just be extra ravenous for your hard, thick dick, ready for  you to give me a call and take me like only a fucking man can.

bikehotties

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Our Secret Truths

24d6c0ba3da59d59628c51e1e448a98aI recently saw a very powerful and memorable film, the Oscar nominated, The Danish Girl, starring Eddie Redmayne and Alicia Vikander (my most recent Hollywood girl-crush; more on that another time! hehe). Possibly because I am always so wrapped up in thinking about my work on NiteFlirt, I couldn’t help but be struck by some of the parallels in this film and what I experience working in phone sex! So many of us tend to have sides of ourselves that are hidden from the people who think they know us best: whether it’s our friends, family, or significant others, there are some deeply hidden secrets that are kept from these people for one reason or another. 

the-danish-girl-poster-wideFor those of you who may not know, the movie I am referring to is the true story of a successful artist as he, with the support of his wife, transitions into becoming a woman. The film follows the intimate psychological, physical, and sexual tensions that arose for one of the first people to ever undergo sexual reassignment transition and surgery. To be clear, this is not a post on transgenderism specifically, nor is it in any way something anyone reading this needs to understand or even agree with. I bring it up because there is one scene in the film that very strongly resonated with me that made me look at my own work on NiteFlirt and in phone sex and the lives of so many of us out there who are harboring some kind of secret, be it a fetish or a lifestyle preference.  

DanishGirlIn The Danish Girl, there is a scene where the artist reaches out to non other than a sex worker to truly guide him in his search for feminization. He visits a peep show, where he sits behind a glass that separates him from the beautiful dancer who strips before him. Performing what was a regular nightly routine that she at first appears detached from, the dancer quickly realizes that the man watching her behind the glass is NOT there to get off, but instead sitting there imitating her movements. In a sort of beautiful, personal, and honest moment between the two, the dancer slows down her movements to become instructional rather than for the erotic purpose of turning him on, as she’s so often used to. She demonstrates for this man, who is embarking on a journey to become a woman, the ways to move his body, his hands, bat his eyes, and explore his body in the way a woman might. It’s the first time in the film that he truly seems to feel comfortable in his own skin, despite the efforts of his wife and friends to guide him and understand him, it took a woman in the sex industry to recognize this need for guidance, for an outlet, and for a sincere moment in which he could truly feel his true self, shame-free. 

I love this scene because in that moment you can see that the woman understands that she is one of the few people and places that this man in need can turn to in order to explore his true self. 

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In connection to my NiteFlirt gig, while I do get calls from time to time of men who want to experience feminization, the impact reaches far beyond that. From guys who simply want to explore a particular fetish that may be otherwise “taboo” in real like, to people looking to play out outrageous fantasies they might never dream to act on in their day-to-day interactions. From feeling a departure from one’s usual role in life as a dominant or a submissive, to using language that would get them fired or shunned from their social groups, to simply exploring sexuality and engaging in acts with a parter who is not judgmental nor uninterested. I find every single day that men call me and are able to, even if in some small way, become their true selves or their secret selves or their forbidden selves even if just for a few minutes on the phone. 

dom1I adore that when it comes to phone sex, a stranger is reaching out to me and is uninhibited in the way that he can behave. I’d be lying if I said I was never weary or confused about particular fetishes; I’ve even myself been known to block a guy or two who took things to a dark enough place that I became disturbed and wouldn’t want to go to again (though this happens VERY rarely!) However, overall, on a daily basis, I speak to and meet amazing people who live completely normal, average lives. They just know that there is a side to their personality that has been or is being repressed and they need an outlet for it. I love being that outlet. I love knowing that I can carry their secrets with me if it brings them even a little bit of comfort. I love knowing that, at times, I experience a side of my callers that their closest friends or family might never see. With me, a man can be his true self. Whether it’s due to a sexual deviance or it’s because he needs a person to turn to or a shoulder to cry on or another human being to vent to, I believe that phone sex work is oftentimes SO MUCH MORE than just jerking off and cumming hard.

That isn’t to say that it’s not about jerking off. I mean, c’mon…. I’m not fooling myself into thinking I’m doing some incredible work I should be winning a Nobel Prize for. I just feel that whether it’s a 5-minute stroke session to blow off steam from a long day, or it’s a 15-minute conversation about a fetish that a guy has secretly fantasized about for years but hasn’t been able to bring himself to actually admit to a partner, or it’s a 2-hour marathon call as a result of simply feeling lonely, I really think that making a positive connection between phone sex operator and caller is important to each persons’ experience in understanding themselves.

5317b3bed4529209b4ea69674291a441The best part of all of this for me though, is that several of my callers have been this same outlet for ME. A lot of my life, even though I appear to be “in the middle of the action” as a pretty, popular, and outgoing young girl, I’ve actually always felt that I wasn’t being true to myself in many ways. From dealings with friends, family, and relationships, there have been many times I’ve felt the need to hide aspects of myself for fear of shame, particularly when it comes to sexuality or so-called “deviant” or off-beat desires. However, on NiteFlirt, so many amazing guys have brought that out of me, and I’ve been able to explore those desires that I otherwise wouldn’t have without the help of of the creative, sexy, and extra naughty minds of my callers. 

So yes, I am here to fuck you, suck you, tease you, and tempt you. However, I am also here to give advice, to allow you to explore your needs and desires, to talk you through heartache and hardships, and to empower you in a way that will make you feel alive like never before. 
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